Samantha, yoo wrote to me several times and then stopped. I wrote and told you if your Dad refuses these treatments, it was HE that would be missing out on this beautiful Grandson that he will have in a couple months. I also told you, to be hte best daughter you could be..because in hte end, you can say you at least tried. I told you I'd lost my father to cancer almsot 2 years ago and was cheated out of the last 3 years of his life. You told me you and your dad had disageements. I was in te same boat. Yes, cancer sucks.......I had malignant melanoma cut out of my leg in 2001. I just had surgery day before yesterday to remove a lump in my breast.....awaiting results from pathology......cancer is something your Dad could fight if he had the desire. My heart goes out to you, and if I lived closer, I would volunteer to be the bst Fairy*Godmother to this little boy(your son) he could ever ask for. Why is it he refuses treatment? Please answer this question....