Absolutely not....Sex is better than ever....Nothing changes unless you let it change...This is a subject that IMO happens to so many women because they expect it....Heck, I think some welcome it....Me, I knew that I had this hunk of man and I had no intention of giving another woman a chance to bed him down, so I just plain dug in and found myself again....

The only thing different is that Aunt Flo no longer visits.... ..This is your reward...

Take care,
Caroline

I had my hysto. in 2006 my sex drive has never been high but now it is ZERO NONE nothing turns me on i could care less if i ever have sex again,is there anything out ther that can help me? i have a wonderful husband and i dont want him to stray. and it would be nice if i could feel like a woman again.

I had mine in 1997 and have never regretted it. Tina this should be one of the best times of your life for you and your husband. This surgery has nothing to do with how you look physically to your husband. Men really don't know the difference if you have had a hyst. or not. Please believe me I know this for a fact. Enjoy your man and make sure he enjoy you before he do stray. Plan a romantic evening, go to Vickie Secrets get a sexy outfit and just keep remembering how it use to be and I promise you it will be great. It is the hand we were dealt and we can and will deal with it Girl!!

Hi Tina:

I understand exactly what you are saying...There is no short cut in finding yourself...I am not sure if you are looking for some pill or want some advice on this...If you want to PM through this Forum I would be happy to help you...There are so many things to ask you...One being, do you masturbate to keep yourself sexually awake?........

I had my full hysterectomy plus lost my ovaries the same day...I was 47...When my husband was in his early 50's, he met a woman from another State...She was a business friend..20 years younger than he was...My husband, probably like yours, was and is hot...She took to him and he was friendly...He meant it friendly and she meant it sexual...She came to him in our city and waited for him in a hotel to bed him down...She was very good looking...He did not go but she flew in to do this...This is how sexually hungry a woman can get and is....This is what every woman faces...I thank God that we were sexually alive and that he did not stray...I think about this often...I only found it out a year ago when at lunch, I, being so darn sure of myself asked him if he had ever had an affair...When he told me this I just about choked...He also told me of a nurse who was also married who tried to bed him down when he was in his late 20's or early 30's...

Sometimes I think that being a woman that dared to have an affair with a married boss when I was near 20, but stopped short of intercourse, has given me an added insight in life...Now I also have the knowledge of a woman that wanted to sleep with my husband and would do this knowing that he had an older wife....I have often wondered what I would have done if he did it and I found out....Either way, you are wise in worrying....Not about your husband who is probably wonderful, but other women who are horny and hungry for the filling of man....

I use Estring which is a circular disc inserted vaginally every three months...I actually got it because I was sore from too much sex...However, this is a wonderful HRT that I would swear by...It keeps my vagina juicy and feeds all of my inner self daily...Expensive, but wonderful....You may want to consider this...

Again I am here if you have any questions...Hugs, honey...It can be rough...

Caroline