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Q: Girlfriend's conception date?
asked by: chamilitaryman06 on January 15th, 2008
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Hello everybody...... I'm needing some help....My girlfriend cheated on me and she is pregnant and doesn't know if me or the other guy is the father......I remember having sex with her sometime before her last period which started on dec 2 and ended dec 7 of 2008....... I remember having sex with her a few days after her period as well..... She cheated on me on dec 18 which would be 14 days after her period ended....... On the 22 of dec she was brushing her teeth and her gums started bleeding which is a sign of pregnancy...... I believe but i can't remember she has been complaining of tender breasts before she cheated on me on the 18th....... Is it possible it's mine or is it the other guys? She goes Friday to doctor but any help would be appreciated.
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chamilitaryman06
replied on January 15th, 2008
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Oh yeah and she said her period was early when it came on dec 2
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young Girl
replied on January 15th, 2008
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ok first off bleeding gums from bushing teeth is from...BRUSHING your teeth. Wink
how doesshe know shes pregnant? has she tested yet./ because if she thinks her gums are bleeeding so shes automatically pregnant then shes whack.

and its most likley (sorry) that she would be pregnant by the other guy because thats when she would have ovulated
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chamilitaryman06
replied on January 15th, 2008
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Thanks I figured it was going to be his............. Yeah she is pregnant health department told her and scheduled her doctor appointment. Thanks for letting me know
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young Girl
replied on January 15th, 2008
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sorry Sad

why are you still with her if she cheated on you Sad
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chamilitaryman06
replied on January 15th, 2008
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Small chance It could still be my baby and dude she cheated on me with won't help her so I took it on myself
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young Girl
replied on January 15th, 2008
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wow. thats brave of you.
does she know how far along she is or anything yet? when did she test?
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chamilitaryman06
replied on January 16th, 2008
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No she doesn't know how far along yet.......They told her at the Health department between the 16th and 18th.....I'm thinking it's his as well but I don't know for sure cause we had sex so close together...... I was going to help her through her time of pregnancy cause i know it's hard especially cause she only 20
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young Girl
replied on January 16th, 2008
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well youre basically awsome

good luck with everything and i hope it works out
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gingerelizabeth
replied on January 16th, 2008
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there is really no way to tell because ovulation changes.
however i believe there is a way to test while the baby is still inside her if your that concerned (not very safe for the baby however so i dont recommend it)

goodluck you sound like a wonderful person.
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Jules
replied on January 18th, 2008
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the_girlfriend wrote:
ok first off bleeding gums from bushing teeth is from...BRUSHING your teeth. Wink


Actually, bleeding gums can be a sign of pregnancy. The gums can become more sensitive and inflamed during pregnancy and therefore more likely to bleed, even from normal brushing.

See here: http://www.babycentre.co.uk/pregnancy/ante natalhealth/physicalhealth/bleedinggums/

Just thought I'd throw that out there! Very Happy
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chamilitaryman06
replied on January 18th, 2008
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UPDATE!!!!! MY girlfriend found her calendar and she had her period on nov 13-19 and what she thought was a period dec 2-7 could she have been pregnant before she cheated on me?
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chamilitaryman06
replied on January 20th, 2008
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I guess what I'm asking is could that increase the chances of it being mine? It's hard going through this (other guy is nowhere around) and then it turn out not to be mine after I get attached.....(other guy said he wants his child) So i'm kinda grasping at everything i can.....If it's his she is only a little over a month (1 month and 2 days) and she already has cravings and she has been having more frequent urination for about a week and a half and her body looks pregnant (especially breasts)....I think Feb 25 we go to Dr and he might give her an ultrasound to see how far along she is..... It's just hard waiting and if she did concieve around the 18th (the day she cheated) it could still be mine so I'm just anxious to know cause getting attached and then it not be mine would probably hurt worse than her cheating especially if the other guy is serious about wanting to be in the child's life....
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young Girl
replied on January 20th, 2008
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well i think yur best bet is going to be to wait until you go to the dr. they will give you a general idea of when her estimated due date is and you guys can go from there and count back and try to find out when she concieved.
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Little Miss Oops
replied on January 28th, 2008
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Re: Girlfriend's conception date?
chamilitaryman06 wrote:
I remember having sex with her sometime before her last period which started on dec 2 and ended dec 7 of 2008....... \.


sorry not trying to make fun of you or anything but you said december of 2008. it makes me think she had her period for a whole year lol just thought id throw that out there lol
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