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blondie_899 Experienced User
January 15th, 2008
Im having really bad problems getting over my ex.My ex was everything I wanted in a guy and he had almost everything in common with me.We agreed on everything and im still in love with him.We went out for 6 months then he broke up with me because he said he just wasn't happy and he was depressed.Well he pushed me away and said mean things to me and after all of that I was still there for him.Well I helped him fix that problem then me and him went back out for 2 months.Then he broke up with me and said more mean things to me and I was still there for him.Well me and him were trying to work out things but after a week he said that things would just never work out between us.Well that broke my heart after all of those times he hurt me and I felt like he didn't care but yet I still gave him chance after chance.Well after he told me that he said he didn't want to date anyone for awhile.Well two days later I find out that he is talking to this other girl after he told me that he still had feeling for me and lied to me.Well he was saying how amazing she is and they haven't even known each other for awhile.It just hurts to see the one your in love with like someone else.It's been a couple of days since I have talked to him and I won't be talking to him again since I called him and told him that he lied to me but he denied it and then we started yelling at each other,then he had his dad cuss me out.I know this may sound selfish but I don't want to see him happy since he hurt me so bad,he doesn't deserve to be that happy.I know that me and him will never be able to go back out.But I need suggestions on how to get over him.
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himinameisash
replied January 15th, 2008
his not for u
then hes not for u...try going on blind dates or star hanging with ur friends do things that u will never think of doing u now...live ur life be free...if hes up there calling u names then sweetie forget him screw him forgive and foget ok ur much betta then that and hes just a low life man who calls a woman names u now so take care
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Roberta777
replied January 15th, 2008
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blondie_899
I know what is like. You invest your love and time in a person and believe they are going to be honest with you. Sometimes, guys just don't know the meaning of being honest or else they want to hold onto what they have with you at the time, or even worse, they weren't raised right.

I had to let go of somebody that I truly loved and he has been both a blessing and a child in so many ways. A child can cause you grief, but this guy still is a mixed bag of emotions to me. He has caused me great stress on my home as I got out a line of equity credit against my paid off home to put in a vineyard. He honestly couldn't figure out diggledy squat. Came in $70,000.00 over budget.

Still, he is helping me take care of it.

Some of these guys are just immature. Sorry to you guys out there.

I haven't been with him in that special way for a long time now, but I still dream about him, think about him, how great it was with us. I think it is all part of the process of letting go.

Then, sometimes, I remember how upset I would be when he said he would be coming over and didn't and also didn't have the respect to call and let me know that he couldn't make it.

Like I said, I believe it is a way of letting them go.

Go on and find somebody worthy of you girl.
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Neek
replied March 14th, 2008
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i hope your heart finds peace, i am also in the process of trying to let go
but i keep meeting up with him........ its terrible and its soooo HARD

sometimes i wish i never met him,because he has hurt me soo much
when things go fine with us, i jst forget about the bad things and then i seem fine
but deep down i know i have to get rid of him
he is emotional hurting me. even though he doesnt know it.
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genrai
replied March 21st, 2008
first rule!!!!!!!! dont invest your 100% in loving someone try to love him or her 25% so that when time comes that you two gonna seperate your ways you will not hurt much. invest 100% when are you trully sure that he or she is the one for you......
hope it helps...
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