Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Posts: 78 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALiFORNiA
ready for sex ? Posted: 01-15-08 19:49pm
I'm 18 Yrs.old, and still a virgin!.
well It doesn't bother me that I am a
virgin!..
guys try to get me in bed.but It never
happens!.
I just end up breaking up with
them!.....IT's like they force me to have
sex with them.
I have a boyfriend right now.He knows
that I'm still a virgin.
he told me that it's ok with him!.....
um?..he's a really nice guy!.
and I know that he'll wait for me until
I'm ready..
but when do I know that I"m ready?
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himinameisash
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not ready yet Posted: 01-15-08 20:03pm
well if ur not ready yet then ur not u
will get this urge in ur gut that says
that ur ready and if ur not then if ur
tryin to force urself to have sex then ur
gut will hold u back and u get a sick
feeling to say im not ready yet so that
the best i can give u
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himinameisash
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Joined: 15 Jan 2008 Posts: 5 Location: hi, hi
not ready yet Posted: 01-15-08 20:07pm
well sweetie if he pushed u from the get
go then hes not for u cuz if u were not
ready then hell b like ok all right i can
wait right away he wouldnt say ok alright
after he nows that ur scared but u now
thats ur choice and ill pay for u ok
*****ashtothefullest*****
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Posts: 78 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALiFORNiA
thanx. Posted: 01-15-08 20:07pm
thanx a lot!.
I wanted to just wait until I"m ready..
I know that my boyfriend's also waiting
until I"m ready.
well we're going through a *long-distance*
relationship right now.that would last for
about 5 more months.
we both talked about sex and stuff like
that.
I was just messing with him that 12 years
from now, that'S when we'll have sex!.
but he says *the next time we see
eachother*.
well half of me says I want him so
badly!.the other half isn't ready yet!
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himinameisash
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Joined: 15 Jan 2008 Posts: 5 Location: hi, hi
ok Posted: 01-15-08 20:09pm
ok
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acruz
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Posted: 01-16-08 10:36am
Well, I just wanted to tell you that I was
still a virgin at 18. Many guys tried, but
only one succeeded, and we are now
married. I knew that I loved him with all
my heart and couldn't imagine sharing such
an intimate and wonderful moment with
anyone else. We waited 9 months and it was
well worth the wait.
Listen to your heart
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Posts: 78 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALiFORNiA
to "ACRUZ".. Posted: 01-16-08 19:51pm
wow. I thought girls would wanna brake
their virginity by then!..
I guess i'm not the only one!.
anywais.thanx!.
that helpd me out a lot!.
and I will listen to my heart!
thanx!
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acruz
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Posted: 01-16-08 21:42pm
No problem. Trust me...I don't hold back
anymore!!
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Verizon-y
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Re: ready for sex? Posted: 01-17-08 00:59am
crazyinluvwitchu
wrote:
I'm 18 Yrs.old, and still a
virgin!.
well It doesn't bother me that I am a
virgin!..
guys try to get me in bed.but It never
happens!.
I just end up breaking up with
them!.....IT's like they force me to have
sex with them.
How did you have the self-esteem to
withstand the pressure? I want my
daughter to be able to wait until she is
really, really ready just like you.
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acruz
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Re: ready for sex? Posted: 01-17-08 09:24am
futureshock
wrote:
crazyinluvwitchu
wrote:
I'm 18 Yrs.old, and still a
virgin!.
well It doesn't bother me that I am a
virgin!..
guys try to get me in bed.but It never
happens!.
I just end up breaking up with
them!.....IT's like they force me to have
sex with them.
How did you have the self-esteem to
withstand the pressure? I want my
daughter to be able to wait until she is
really, really ready just like
you.
This question wasn't directed towards me,
but I thought I would give you my opinion
In my house, sex
was a normal thing, I have very young
brothers and sisters and I knew where they
came from. It was not a scary thing. It
was something I knew I wanted to
experience, just not with your average
guy. Sex is something that I knew was
special and shouldn't just be a random act
with a random guy. It was just clear as
day when I was ready. I didn't think
twice, I knew I was with a man I loved and
that was that. I didn't regret it, I
didn't feel guilty...It was wonderful. I
don't think that it is something that can
be "taught" I think that it is a personal
decision. I hope your daughter does wait,
it is that much better when you do, but it
is ultimately her decision.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-17-08 09:38am
When you want to, and you are well
educated about std's and pregnancy and how
to avoid them, and you are responsible and
protect your body, you are ready!
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 01-17-08 09:51am
You will KNOW when you are ready. Don't do
it until you KNOW. You want this to be a
special memory that will make you smile
when you look back to remember it.
That is awesome that you found a guy
willing to wait for you. He must be a
great guy!
A lot of guys only try to get girls in
bed. It's like their main mission in life.
It's good to see that there are still some
good guys out there that aren't only
looking for sex. Good for you!
I would advise you to go ahead and get put
on the pill or something. This way, when
you DO decide to lose your virginity, you
won't have to worry about getting
pregnant. Also, keep some condoms so you
can protect yourself against STDs. When
you have sex with one person, you are
having sex with every person that guy has
ever been with. And the people they have
been with, and so on.
Teenagers carry STDs and don't even know
they have them. Chlamydia, Gonnorhea, and
HPV (the virus that causes genital warts)
are the most commonly caught STDs among
people your age. BE SAFE!!!
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Posts: 78 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALiFORNiA
Posted: 01-18-08 01:57am
thanx Marianne0558.....
thanx for the advice!....
I will wait until I do know if I'm
ready!...
and yeah.....most of the guys I've dated,
only wanted me n bed!..
but this guy that Im currently dating at
this moment is willing to wait until I"m
ready!...
I do feel lucky for having a guy like
him!......
I"ll probably ut myself on the pills
thingy...
just to be on the safe side!..
THANX
