huh *lost*

~alicia~

Me too.... But, i'm praying for you. I hope all gets better quickly.

don't be sorry.

They talk caca about me too Krissy. I've seen it as well...

unlike you, I'm NOT going to apologize...

Sarah

I'm really sorry about the tax thing. REALLY sorry because you could have gotten back thousands of dollars and I know how much that would have helped you out.

It was actually illegal for him to do what he did. Because he intentionally lied on a federal tax form. When this child support thing is being done - I hope there is a parenting plan along with it where it says he IS NOT allowed to claim him on the taxes. If that isn't included, please please please have it included and make sure to let him know what he did IS NOT legal and if you wanted to fight it with the IRS, you could.

((hugs)) Be strong, girl!

Thanks, Ingi!

The thing is, I think he COULD claim him, because we lived together (with Gabe, obviously) for more than 6 months last year. So, legally, that means he CAN claim him, right?

I am going to get my back child support for the past 3-4 months & I get to claim Gabe for the next 17 years. I am going to let Chris know what he did was wrong (although I did tell him when we were still together that he could be the one to claim him when we were still together).

Wow. I'm the one who said I was too frustrated to reply. I didn't say I was too frustrated with you to reply - I was frustrated with the situation, and the fact that the money was already spent on something like a past-due bill and a vehicle note. Neither were said behind your back - I said the same in your topic, just not at first because I was so disguted. With you? No. With Chris.

I also said nothing about you screwing your son over. I said "if she's not willing to pursue it, I don't have much else to say", which is the truth. Since you've mentioned you might mention it to him, I think that's a great thing. I don't think he should get away with spending Gabriel's money that way when he has an obligation to you and to his son.

I'm sorry if you're not talking about me, but I'm about 90% sure that you are.

No. Actually he cannot. Because it is who had the child living with them at the end of the year. This happens in a lot of parenting cases and it is not right. Please make sure it gets included in the parenting plan. I'm sure your lawyer is going to be all over it, but just for your own piece of mind make sure it is listed.

Thanks, Ingi. I'm calling my lawyer tomorrow about some other things, so I think I'm going to mention this to him, as well.

& Laura, I'm sorry for jumping to conclusions. I was shown just a small portion of a conversation. & While it still hurt a little, I understand. You know I love you.

Thanks Krissy. I wouldn't say anything behind your back that I wouldn't be willing to say to your face. I do hope you pursue this matter with Chris, because it's not right, and he's basing it off an agreement you made when you guys still lived together and you had a reasonable expectation that the return would be for your family, not for Chris.

I'm sorry if I got a little heated. It was a shocking thing to come home to. I care about you a lot Kris.

I know you do.

I'm going to say something to my lawyer about it.
& I'll see what he says about the whole ordeal.

I wouldn't worry so much about what others think. You know what is going on everyday in your life and how you handle your child and your business is just that, YOUR business.

I hope everything turns out better for you.