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Q: Do U Preg Girls Feel Like This?
asked by: KariM18 on April 25th, 2004
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Ok. . Ive been goin out alot lately.. My friends always try to drag me out.. But when I go to parties and such.. I feel very out of place and alot of the time feel like leaving. . I feel weird bein the 'pregnant girl' at the party.. And I guess I feel left out. . Its not like I can drink or anything and most everyone is drunk. .Even tho u dont have to drink to have fun,i feel weird bein the only sober one there.. Plus, its not like im there to meet guys,. .Not too many guys at parties are lookin for a preg girl. (not to be mean). . Believe it or not tho, I do still get hit on, surprisingly...I got hit on tonite by 2 guys.. Lol then I found out one of them was married..Nice guy, he asked me out and joking around im like "r u married?".. Then hes like "of course not!" then I asked someone about him and they said hes been married 2 yrs.,,but yeah anyhow.. But even if I do still get hit on, and even if I didnt, I still feel out of place.. And most the time feel upset or something and I want to leave. But I dont wanna turn into a bore and become a little hermit or something lol! Is this bad or just a normal thing?. . I think I just kinda miss bein able to go out, have fun, nothin to worry about. And now I have to (and choose to tho) think about the baby all the time, and I feel like im missing out on still bein young and a teenager. .But I guess that will go away because my baby is more important.... Thanks for listening.. Kinda rambled.. Confused
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KariM18
replied on April 25th, 2004
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O yeah.. And also.. I went to a wedding and reception tonite. .The people gettin married are brad and julie, their 22 and 19 (shes 4 months preg so they decided to get married, they were going to somtime down the road tho) anyhow. .Even tho I was happy for them. .At the same time it made me mad/sad cuz I felt like 'im preg too.. I should be getting married'.. And made me feel bad cuz im not even with the father (its not that I wanna be)..But it still made me feel bad.
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JillMarie
replied on April 25th, 2004
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I do! I actually dont even go see my friends (all guys) I wont even tell them im pregnant when we talk on the phone! I feel like it makes things weird!
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on April 26th, 2004
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I feel kinda alone and left out too...
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KariM18
replied on April 26th, 2004
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Yeah it sucks.. Ikeep trying to remind myself that I have something so special and that im lucky.. But its still hard becasue I miss being a teen and bein young and goin to parties.. Meetin new guys etc.. Its just harder because I feel so different and outta place. . Iknow my baby is worth it tho.. I just gotta keep remindin myself.. U both 2!
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on April 26th, 2004
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I always feel so nerdy around people that dont know im pregnant(i always wear big sweatshirts and my belly isnt so obvious) and when there are other people around me all drinking and smoking im just sittin there doin nothing I just feel like a tag along little sister or something lol. And if im in somebody elses car and I cant find the seat belt im like um yea wheres my seatbelt and I just feel so dorky doing that, and making them dig it out Laughing
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nikki_caro
replied on April 27th, 2004
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Not me I dont care! As soon as I get a belly id show it off! Lol and I got hit on by some hot guys in a car when I was taking jose lunch, they were waving and stuff and I just smiled and called my sis and was like "i should have got their number for you!!!" I think its just your hormones right now, they will make you feel different. But you should enjoy being out, even if you are the sober one, im sober too and my cousins will be sober with me. I would still party though if I had people to go out with! Lol and trust me alot of guys do want a pregnant girl! Lol my sister had to shew all the guys away! Lol its funny, dont worry though. Your having a baby you should be happy!!!
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lilmama2b_oct04
replied on April 27th, 2004
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I like to show off my belly, it just gets cold here so I have no choice but to wear my big sweatshirts... I hate small sweatshirts, they are so uncomfortable! Laughing
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