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Q: ex lying about pregnancy ?

asked by: VeryWorriedGuy on January 14th, 2008

Experienced User

She said

"when will you realize that breaking up with me was the stupidest thing you could do
for one little mistake you break off what was a wonderful relationship
and now you're gonna have a horrible year, was it worth it?
and i dont care if you heard what i said to carolina"

just more the reasons to make her think she's lying to me right? i dont mean to put like all the blame on her or anything, but what do you guys think? we talked today during school and it was fine....still waiting for that DNA test...and she just sent me an email saying..um...

"what about the time when its not born? saying if i am pregnant
i could have postpartum depressino, miscarriage or die if it comes out early"

and another one that says

"supportive as in TALK TO ME, COMFORT ME, SUPPORT ME and if you cant do any of those, GET BACK WITH ME so im not going through this alone or soemthing IUNNO its OUR kid if i am pregnant"

sigh....i dont know i guess i can't help but read the emails because i still care about her, just that i think she's pushing it too far if she's lying to get me back

Replies(44)

VeryWorriedGuy

replied on January 14th, 2008

Experienced User

nevermind i think we all already agree that she is lying lol i just want to know what people think about her email

AyaMiyaki

replied on January 14th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

...why are you reading her emails?

Stop it. She will never leave you alone if you don't stop it.

Do you even WANT her to leave you alone?

lele25

replied on January 14th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

Hun...when you said DNA test did you mean a home pregnancy test? If so, they don't take long to come back.....a few minuets at the most. Why do you still listen to her? Please tell me why you won't talk to your parents about this? I know all the stuff about your sister, but this is nothing compared to her situation, and this has gone far enough. How is she explaining that she got pregnant....I thought y'all didn't even have sex...am I remembering that correctly? Is she actually trying to convince you that sperm jumped off of the sheets, into her vagina, and made the swim all the way into her uterus, and after all that the little guy still had enough energy to fertilize an egg? Amazing!

Verizon-y

replied on January 14th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

VeryWorriedGuy wrote:

nevermind i think we all already agree that she is lying lol i just want to know what people think about her email

It's a good thing you wrote this last part, because I was about to whack you on the nose.

What do we think of the email???? Isn't it CRYSTAL CLEAR BY NOW what she is doing?

I think you like her and want to get back with her. So do it already.

young Girl

replied on January 14th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

i pmed you

young Girl

replied on January 14th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

i didnt mean to be mean but seriously this girl is just trying to get back with you. and its stupid because youre falling for her bullsh*^

Katrinadoodle

replied on January 14th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

What's with all the unavailable posts?

And dude, it's seriously sounding like you don't even WANT her to leave you alone. Srsly. Stop reading her e-mails. Stop giving her the attention she wants.

O0o0h_baby

replied on January 15th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

Call her bluff and tell her parents. She obviously needs help.

lele25

replied on January 15th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

O0o0h_baby wrote:

Call her bluff and tell her parents. She obviously needs help.

Completely agree...tell the parents tell the parents tell the parents!

Mabel

replied on January 15th, 2008

Moderator

I want to point out to the OP that this is the OLDEST 'trick' in the book for girls to play on boyfriends - especially EX boyfriends they still want in their lives.

The girl IS NOT pregnant. Stop talking to her. Or don't. Your choice. It doesn't have to be a drama rama though. Pick your battles.

Verizon-y

replied on January 15th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

Excellent point, Ingi.

Dannzibelle

replied on January 16th, 2008

Supporter

I doubt very much she's pregnant. If later on you find out she is infact pregnant which i doubt you can get a DNA test done, if she tried to get money from you then you coukd dispute that you're the father

VeryWorriedGuy

replied on January 16th, 2008

Experienced User

alright...i'll tell you guys whats going on with my life again...but it'll be a while...i feel like i've pissed everybody off in this forum

Katrinadoodle

replied on January 16th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

I don't think you've pissed anybody off... but I know you've frustrated me, for one. You seem like a nice guy and you don't deserve her crap, and yet you still let her bother you, even after we've told you time and time again that she's just messing with your head.

amethyst eyes

replied on January 16th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

She sounds iffy. You should go with her to a clinic to get a test. You have every right since it could be your baby.

Lilly Ivy

replied on January 16th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

sounds like she's trying to put you through a guilt trip. She's not sure she's pregnant right? If she comes to you in a month saying she's pregnant, I would DEFINITELY get a DNA test done, because chances are, she'll do anyone just to get pregnant, say it's yours so you'll HAVE to come back to her.

If she is giving you this much trouble, I wouldn't waste my time with her. If she does this when you are NOT together, imagine what would happen if you were together.

Order of things:
1. *IF* she is pregnant, support her through. At least emotionally if you can
2. DNA test
3. If not yours, break off completely, she lied, cheated and basically stole just so you would come back. It's obsession, not love, I've been in that boat. Don't fall for it. I wanted so bad to be pregnant when my ex broke up with me just so he'd come back. Doesn't happen that way.

Verizon-y

replied on January 17th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

She is NOT PREGNANT.

She is MAD THAT YOU DUMPED HER.

She is THREATENING YOU so you will TAKE HER BACK.

It is IMPOSSIBLE to get pregnant from sperm that has been on a dry bed sheet for over 6 hours. It is DEAD.

SO, since you know all of this, Francis, I want to know why you are still acting like you are believing her?

young Girl

replied on January 17th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

i told him

ah. man. girls.

VeryWorriedGuy

replied on January 17th, 2008

Experienced User

im moving schools far...to a far far away school...i just need to get it confirmed with my principal and the new school's principal...i need to get away from this..

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