|
CarrigerB
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2008
Posts: 3
|
husband refuses sex
Posted: 01-13-08 23:21pm
|
|
|
|
He wont have sex with me. I am getting
very frustrated and it just hurts and it
makes me feel very very insecure. Every
night he will go into his bathroom and
masterbate to a forum magazine, I threw
all his video porn out and he got a mag.
So..what am I supposed to do?He doesn't
kiss me when he leaves for work, he
doesn't kiss me @ all. He never has acted
this way before. He doesn't come home when
he's suppoed to, he says he's hanging out
with his friend ( a 50 year old man).
Working on his boat. We have had a break
up, and he has left me before. He left me
a few days before Christmas. I am just
wondering if there is another girl or if
he would rather masterbate than have the
real thing. We used to do it every night
or at least every other night. Now, I
can't even get an "I love you" outta him.
I am just so worried and disgusted. I cry
every night. He is a rediculous exuse for
a man. I serve him his food, I wash his
laundry, I do it all in our relationship.
I am just depressed and I can't seem to
want to be with someone if they do not
express their feelings to me, Sexually or
emotionally. I am tired of all the crap he
feeds me. I haven't asked him for sex,
because I am not that type. I read some
where, If they turn you down for sex, it's
time to find a new boyfriend.
|
|
|
|
|
 |
|
young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007
Posts: 13932
Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 01-13-08 23:27pm
|
|
|
|
|
ok somehting is wrong with him
sounds to me like the whole thing is a
mess. hes not interested in you anymore.
and thats not fair to you to do all the
work in the realationship. you need to
seriously talk to him
and if things dont change or get better
than maybe you need to call it quits
because as i said its not fair
we dont know the reason why hes acting
like this. no one knows but HIM. but what
i see is that hes lost interest
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Flurries in the air
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2007
Posts: 388
Location: Chicago
|
Posted: 01-13-08 23:38pm
|
|
|
|
|
i think he has anothe woman....
|
|
|
|
|
|
fiona05
Supporter
Joined: 21 Dec 2005
Posts: 663
Location: , Norn Iron
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 01-14-08 07:15am
|
|
|
|
|
have you tried approaching him to talk,
and what is his response? i know from
experience men can be the worst sulkers,
perhaps he's deliberately being a jerk
because of something he thinks you've
done. try to find out from him why he is
behaving in this way. if you get a foul
mouthed or dismissive response then you
need to get rid. this sounds like an awful
situation to be in. how long has this been
going on for?
|
|
|
|
|
|
Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007
Posts: 727
Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
|
Posted: 01-14-08 23:25pm
|
|
|
|
|
He masturbates to a magazine every night?
And he lives with you?
It's time to move on.
|
|
|
|
|
|
nightangel73
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005
Posts: 2607
Location: ,
Thanks: 17
Thanked:13
|
Posted: 01-15-08 06:55am
|
|
|
|
|
Carriger do a favor to yourself and leave
that jerk. He is not into you.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
anniek
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2007
Posts: 432
Location: , Iowa Usa
Thanks: 15
Thanked:2
|
Posted: 01-15-08 08:49am
|
|
|
|
|
Wow! Sounds like a jerk to me. I'm sure
you deserve much better! Can't tell you
what is wrong with him but its his problem
not yours. I would suggest trying to talk
to him and if he doesn't want to talk or
try to solve what is wrong, I would say
hit the road! Have some time for yourself
and find someone who will treat you like a
queen!
|
|
|
|
|
|
gingerelizabeth
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2008
Posts: 79
|
Posted: 01-15-08 08:52am
|
|
|
|
|
i think it is time to sit down and tell
him you either put more in the
relationship or im out
a relationship is not a one person job.
and by staying your only making yourself
unhappy
i hope things get better!
|
|
|
|
|
|
Georgia59
Supporter
Joined: 11 Apr 2007
Posts: 5557
Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
Thanks: 90
Thanked:32
|
Posted: 01-15-08 13:22pm
|
|
|
|
|
Try talk to him about it- see if he's
willing to try and change.
but if that doesn't work, or he is
unwilling to compromise and work on your
relationship, it's not worth it. You
deserve some affection.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007
Posts: 13932
Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 02-04-08 11:28am
|
|
|
|
|
surya
get out of here you sick discusting perv
men are NOT allowed in womens chat
so go
and for gods sake take that avatar picture
off
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005
Posts: 12985
Thanks: 3
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 02-04-08 13:54pm
|
|
|
|
|
Why on earth are you still with this boy!?
I'd leave. There's no excuse for his
behavior.
|
|
|
|
|
|
CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
Supporter
Joined: 11 Apr 2007
Posts: 3063
Location: like anyone cares, phhht
Thanks: 6
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 02-04-08 18:02pm
|
|
|
|
|
leave hun or go to a counsler maybe
midlife crisis or he is having prob
sexually?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005
Posts: 12985
Thanks: 3
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 02-04-08 22:22pm
|
|
|
|
|
His problem sexually is that he ain't
giving any to his wife/girlfriend!!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ShawnaNmichaelNbaby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2008
Posts: 12
|
Leave him alone.....
Posted: 02-04-08 22:43pm
|
|
|
|
|
I have had this happen and I am a very
secure attractive person....When I acted
like I didnt want him and played the same
mastubation games. He soon realized ouch
that hurts she likes her hands more than
me. Sad I know but we are human and still
need to be reminded at times. Throwing
out his porn will not be a big hit in his
book and probably will not turn him on
very much indulge this if you can or
cannot wait buy sex toys make things fun
for him. Sometimes guys sex drives are
totally different then women keep in mind
you are two totally diff people.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005
Posts: 12985
Thanks: 3
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 02-04-08 23:13pm
|
|
|
|
|
I think this guy is actually cheating on
his girlfriend to be honest.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Verizon-y
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Aug 2007
Posts: 3291
Thanks: 2
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 02-05-08 00:47am
|
|
|
|
|
I think this guy is actually addicted to
porn. It is becoming more and more
common.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
yellow ribbon
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005
Posts: 5554
Location: FL
|
Posted: 02-05-08 01:06am
|
|
|
|
|
i think he might have another man. like
this dude hes working on a boat with...
|
|
|
|
|
