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Q: female orgasm and oral sex questions

asked by: unnamedny on January 13th, 2008

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For starters I'm 21 year old guy I just wanted to get some info about female orgasm. I've dated my girlfriend for 4 months. Here is the deal. She told me that she had an orgasm with me once. When I was really in the mood and I was more fit (I jog everyday during the summer), I had to sweat a lot, (about 15-20 min) go very fast for her to get it. It seems to me that I got used to her a little more and now I can't do that well and I come to orgasm a little faster. (maybe because I;m not in such a great shape). I want her to get it again, but I can't make it happen. Anyone can give me some advice or recommend some sort of technique please. scared

Another thing I'm concerned about. I love giving her oral and she seems enjoy it too (sometimes she asks me after a while if I ever get tired of it). When she gets closer to an orgasm I can feel some tension in her body then she starts to breathe very fast that I can hear it even from down there. Then she get some sort of release (what it seems to me at least it only last for a second or two) and she asks me right the way to stop doing it, because my tongue tickles her and it only makes her laugh. My question is, is she getting an orgasm or it called something else? Confused

. She does become very happy and more open minder right after it. stretch

Thanks in advance.

Replies(2)

young Girl

replied on January 14th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

when she tells you to stop oral its because she had a clitoral orgasm. and usually after one youre done. some women can handle 2 but not many

antigone

replied on January 30th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

I realize this post is late but I had to add my 2 cents. The tickling sensation and telling you to stop is an indication of an orgasm. The clit becomes very sensitive after an orgasm, similar to the sensitivity of the glans (head) of the penis after orgasm. An orgasm is defined by the uterine contractions that result from stimulus to a woman's genitalia - vaginal, clitoral or a combination of the two.

Vaginal stimulation and orgasm is very subjective. Position has a lot to do with acheiving orgasm. Rear entry (doggie style) is often a good choice as the g-spot is frequently stimulated. Experiment with what works for both of you. One clue - if she indicates she likes what you are doing and is close to orgasm, don't change it. Don't go faster, harder,softer etc. The constant stimuli that you are providing will be enough. Often is you change the rhythm or amount of pressure you ruin the moment, thus no orgasm.

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