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female orgasm and oral sex questions Posted: 01-13-08 18:12pm
For starters I'm 21 year old guy I just
wanted to get some info about female
orgasm. I've dated my girlfriend for 4
months. Here is the deal. She told me that
she had an orgasm with me once. When I was
really in the mood and I was more fit (I
jog everyday during the summer), I had to
sweat a lot, (about 15-20 min) go very
fast for her to get it. It seems to me
that I got used to her a little more and
now I can't do that well and I come to
orgasm a little faster. (maybe because I;m
not in such a great shape). I want her to
get it again, but I can't make it happen.
Anyone can give me some advice or
recommend some sort of technique please.
Another thing I'm concerned about. I love
giving her oral and she seems enjoy it too
(sometimes she asks me after a while if I
ever get tired of it). When she gets
closer to an orgasm I can feel some
tension in her body then she starts to
breathe very fast that I can hear it even
from down there. Then she get some sort of
release (what it seems to me at least it
only last for a second or two) and she
asks me right the way to stop doing it,
because my tongue tickles her and it only
makes her laugh. My question is, is she
getting an orgasm or it called something
else? . She
does become very happy and more open
minder right after it.
Thanks in advance.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 01-14-08 00:14am
when she tells you to stop oral its
because she had a clitoral orgasm. and
usually after one youre done. some women
can handle 2 but not many
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antigone
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Posted: 01-30-08 01:44am
I realize this post is late but I had to
add my 2 cents. The tickling sensation and
telling you to stop is an indication of an
orgasm. The clit becomes very sensitive
after an orgasm, similar to the
sensitivity of the glans (head) of the
penis after orgasm. An orgasm is defined
by the uterine contractions that result
from stimulus to a woman's genitalia -
vaginal, clitoral or a combination of the
two.
Vaginal stimulation and orgasm is very
subjective. Position has a lot to do with
acheiving orgasm. Rear entry (doggie
style) is often a good choice as the
g-spot is frequently stimulated.
Experiment with what works for both of
you. One clue - if she indicates she likes
what you are doing and is close to orgasm,
don't change it. Don't go faster,
harder,softer etc. The constant stimuli
that you are providing will be enough.
Often is you change the rhythm or amount
of pressure you ruin the moment, thus no
orgasm.
. She
does become very happy and more open
minder right after it. 
