Im a 24yo guy. It seriously isn't that important. If you love a girl, who cares! It is fun, but not the be all and end all of a relationship or anything.

I love giving my guy oral just because I really like being able to turn him on and give him pleasure. He never forces it and I only do it when I want to. It's not necessary to our relationship, but a bonus.

If you're not ready to give a guy oral than don't. It takes a lot of trust on both ends. He shouldn't treat you any differently after.

My guy didnt care if he got oral or not. Our sex life was just fine without it, he said he was completely ok with me not performing oral sex, cause he understood the reasons why. Like someone else posted, its not that important. If he cares about you enough then it wont be an issue.

I finally got past my issues with oral sex and my boyfriend now enjoys receiving it from me. But he allowed me the time and space I needed so we could both enjoy it.

it all depends on the guy every guy is different
but you should never do somethng that makes YOU uncomfortable.
forget what he wants.
if you enjoy doing it go for it!