Joined: 06 Aug 2003 Posts: 79 Location: Griffin, Ga.
Desperately want to adopt a baby ! Posted: 09-11-03 14:06pm
I desperately want to adopt a baby,
however, every time I get a chance,
something always happens. I am so
heartbroken. I even called the family and
children services and they won't even
returen my calls. I want a baby so bad
that I ache inside. But I don't have
thousands of dollars, so I guess my dream
will just go down the drain. Thanks for
listening.
lhileman
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-11-03 14:33pm
Dont give up! You have to keep trying!
Maybe its because god has a baby just for
you but you have to wait. Maybe the ones
you want, werent meant to be for you.
Trust me, you will adopt but you need to
be patient! Keep trying all services for
it and dont give up hope. I bet there are
alot of mothers who want to give their
babies up for adoption but they cant find
nobody. Your time will come for it so
dont worry ok!? You are in my prayers!
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lhileman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2003 Posts: 79 Location: Griffin, Ga.
Can't Wait Posted: 09-11-03 15:28pm
But you dont understand, I keep hurting
the people that I love the most, and I
don;t knpow why. I really need help! I
am soooooooooooooooooo lonely...
lhileman
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-11-03 15:44pm
How do you hurt them? Maybe you can find
something to take up your take. Do you go
to church? The nurseries at churches
always need help. Maybe you can join a
book club, volunteer to be a teachers aid
at a school. I wish I had time to do
stuff like that. You need to lean
patience and wait. But keep occupied til
then.
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003 Posts: 145 Location: Hmm
Posted: 09-11-03 16:26pm
Hi lisa, im sorry your feeling so lonely
right now. My mom had 6 miscarriages and
had 4 failed adoptions before she got me.
She waited 15 years for me, but the point
of the story is that she did get me in the
end. Like someone said, maybe they
weren't the babies that were meant for
you. If your meant to get one you will.
Don't give up hope darling, it willl
happen.
Love
tanya**
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Missa
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-11-03 18:47pm
Girl be strong and hold on! No need to
get all worked up over this! Timer may
seem long but in the end god gives you
what you really ask for! A family member
of mine has now adoptied 2 sweet girls
from africa, and didn't have lots of
money....Time will give you what you pray
for! ::kiss:: have faith in your self!
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Misty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 52 Location: Nova Scotia
Posted: 09-26-03 12:03pm
Lisa i'm still here for u sweetie! I miss
your emails girl. Dont give up something
has to go right for you. ~misty
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
Posted: 10-03-03 07:24am
I was just reading through this and I just
wanted to say don't give up!!!!! There
are plenty of babies out there you just
have to find the right one!!!!! Best of
luck. And dont be too hard on
yourself!!!! ~melissa
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Lili
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2003 Posts: 33 Location: Greece
Posted: 10-03-03 07:44am
Maybe you need to learn patience before
having one,and even "not hurting the ones
you love" when things are not
right?Children need a lot of patience and
wont understand why you hurt their
feelings,even if you dont mean it,out of
sorrow or stress...
Did you try adopting children from a
different race?Or even children that are
bigger(not babies)...Those need love even
more cause they feel unwanted,they
understand,and most times they lost their
parents so they need alot of tlc...
Good luck
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 10-07-03 08:47am
If it's meant to be, it will. I wish u
lots of luck but dont (caps) give up cos
there r so many baies without loving
parents tha need people like u. Ur chance
will come,
god bless,
liz x
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momtocolton
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2007 Posts: 5 Location: ,
Hi There.. Posted: 10-04-07 00:26am
I totally know how you are feeling.. If
noone has walked in your shoes with
infertilty they have no idea how hard it
is...The want you need so bad for a baby..
I know I have been there... Everytime you
hear one of your friends are pregnant you
just want to run and hide to cry.. The
hardest part for me was when my
sisters-in-laws were pregnant and my
sister.. I didn't want to talk to them,
didn't want to be near them, I just
plainly didn't want nothing to do with
them.. I so know where you are coming
from... I have a son through the blessing
of IVF and he is truly my miracle child..
It took us a long 7 years for him.. We are
now tunring towards adoption too. We have
been approved for 2 months and I know
that's not long.. I to hate to wait, I
hope that this day comes soon for our
family.. My son asks me all the time mom
where is my brother or sister? When are
they coming home? I just have to look into
his big blue eyes and say I don't know
honey... It breaks my heart to see him
want something so bad but can't do nothing
about it.. I feel for you and I totally
understand where you are coming from..
Someday, somewhere, there is a child out
there for you and me and we will be with
them someday.. Until then just spread the
word and let people know that you are
wanting to adopt and that helps me to have
patience and understanding that it happens
when it is suppose to happen... I wish you
that best...
