LadyAllie
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Ejaculate In Mouth
Posted: 01-12-08 23:47pm
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i give my boyfriend blow jobs. i dont mind
it much... but i do not want him to cum in
my mouth... he HELLA wants to though!
everytime i do it he asks me if he can and
i tell him no.
im afraid of what it would taste like, and
all that stuff. plus he tends to cum
alot... 
whats it like?? what should i do??
help please! ~LadyAllie
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-12-08 23:59pm
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taste like...gross,thick,white,nasty huge
loogie
if YOU dont want him to then TELL HIM NO
infact tell him hell no
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:04am
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i do tell him no, and he listens when i
do.
he knows that if he did finish in my mouth
i would be so ridiculously pissed off at
him!
hes just a persistant little bugger. i get
tired of him asking sometimes cuz he knows
the answer...
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:12am
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lol tell him " look DUDE if you ask me ONE
more time im never going to do this
again"
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Jude-Love
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:15am
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It isn't a terrible taste or anything. No
biggie.
IMO, it's best to be open to trying
something new in bed. Don't deny every
request he has. Letting him do this isn't
that much of a sacrifice. Does he go down
on you? He can't avoid getting it in his
mouth!
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:15am
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i think he would get angry at that... but
omg! that made me laugh! lol but
sereously i think he would stop asking me!
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:16am
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| LadyAllie
wrote: | | i think he would get angry
at that... but omg! that made me laugh!
lol but sereously i think he would stop
asking me! |
id be like yo dude let me hock a big fat
loogie in your moouth and see how YOU like
it
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:19am
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yes he does go down on me, but he enjoys
it very much and cant get enough!
finishing in my mouth is one of two things
i deny him. that and anal... we tried anal
as an impulse durring sex and the condom
snapped and hurt like hell! plus it kinda
hurt just in general... hes purdy big.
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:21am
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | LadyAllie
wrote: | | i think he would get angry
at that... but omg! that made me laugh!
lol but sereously i think he would stop
asking me! |
id be like yo dude let me hock a big fat
loogie in your moouth and see how YOU like
it |
youre a feisty one! lol that would be
purdy nasty.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:22am
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| LadyAllie
wrote: | yes he does go down on me,
but he enjoys it very much and cant get
enough!
finishing in my mouth is one of two things
i deny him. that and anal... we tried anal
as an impulse durring sex and the condom
snapped and hurt like hell! plus it kinda
hurt just in general... hes purdy
big. |
same here girl
same here
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:37am
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yea... we havent tried that since... it
hurt so bad that i almost started crying.
i think it was mostly cuz it snapped... im
kinda afraid to let him do it with out a
condom.
i know he doesnt havent have any stds so
it would be safe in that way.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:45am
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are you sure he doesnt have any? how do
you know for sure?
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-13-08 00:52am
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he hasnt ever done anything with anyone
before. his other 2 relationships got as
far as kissing... no tongue included. and
lasted a grand total of 2 months.
this is what he tells me and i totally
trust him. we have an appointment at the
kaiser teen clinic, i think ill see if
hell get tested for me while we're there.
but for the record... we always use
condoms. we try to be AS SAFE AS
POSSIBLE!
i do not want anything happening to my
body. i have enough problems with my
stomach and with migraines. last thing i
need is an STD... ok maybe thats second to
last... the real last thing i need is to
be pregnant... especially at 17.
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Jude-Love
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Posted: 01-13-08 01:05am
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It's good that you're responsible!
I know what you mean about anal....ugh.
My husband and I have done it several
times it is so effing brutal. I did
actually enjoy it and orgasm from it once,
though. The key is to completely relax.
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-13-08 01:08am
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its hard for me to relax, cuz its not
really something i want to do. anal seems
alot like blow jobs... its mostly for the
guy... i dont understand how you orgasm
from anal...?
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Jude-Love
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Posted: 01-13-08 01:21am
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I honestly don't understand how it
happened either...but it did. It felt
just like an orgasm in my butt. I have to
admit, it was amazing. Maybe if you feel
like it, you could ask him to use his
fingers first.
Anyway...yeah, it is TOTALLY for the guy
usually. suckers, right? j/k
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lele25
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Posted: 01-13-08 01:39am
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If he listens when you say no then I
would'nt worry about it. If you are
curious maybe just try it once....its
really not that bad in my opinion,
honestly I could care less either way, but
hubby always lets me know before he's
ready so that I can dodge if I like.
Regarding the taste....hmmm well, its
kinda sweet and salty at the same time and
of course has a thick consistancy. From
what I understand though, taste can vary
due to his diet and lifestyle, ie whether
he smokes or not can effect the way it
taste. Regarding the anal.....if you do
try again use lots of lube and try to
relax.
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fiona05
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Posted: 01-13-08 14:22pm
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you always have the right to say no to
something you don't want to do in bed.
but in personal experience, the longer you
are with someone the more you will start
to open up to new ideas. i don't give my
boyfriend blowjobs because he says it
makes him too self conscious (lol i know)
but whenever i give him handjobs and he
comes i've started licking it off my
fingers  it's really not
that bad. the taste is subtle, it's not
unpleasant at all. like lele says though,
the taste varies depending on his diet.
you can't say you don't like the taste if
you've never tasted it. try it and see
lol. maybe you could try doing what i do,
and lap it up in really small amounts so
it's not so daunting.
don't let him come in your mouth just
because he pesters you about it... do it
because you want to! maybe in time you
will open up to the idea. but if you
don't, no worries. he will just have to
learn to live with it!  a lot of women
don't like swallowing and it is totally
your choice.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-13-08 22:02pm
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| LadyAllie
wrote: | he hasnt ever done anything
with anyone before. his other 2
relationships got as far as kissing... no
tongue included. and lasted a grand total
of 2 months.
this is what he tells me and i totally
trust him. we have an appointment at the
kaiser teen clinic, i think ill see if
hell get tested for me while we're there.
but for the record... we always use
condoms. we try to be AS SAFE AS
POSSIBLE!
i do not want anything happening to my
body. i have enough problems with my
stomach and with migraines. last thing i
need is an STD... ok maybe thats second to
last... the real last thing i need is to
be pregnant... especially at
17. |
well he should get tested
becausse he could get herpes from kissing.
if he kissed some one with herpes and it
spread to him then he kissed you then u
can get it
better safe that sorry!
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LadyAllie
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Posted: 01-14-08 01:12am
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thats very true. eew... herpes... i dont
want
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