kaiteo
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I Need
Posted: 01-12-08 18:28pm
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somewhere to go. Nick is driving me
INSANE. The mood swings and name calling
ARE NOT OKAY.
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O0o0h_baby
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Posted: 01-12-08 18:31pm
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Oh god I'm sorry, I lived with one of
those too. You're right to leave, find
somewhere safe. Good luck.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 01-12-08 18:42pm
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I'm so sorry!!
You would think YOU would be having mood
swings and calling names!!!
Sarah
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:00pm
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I hope you can find somewhere to go.
You don't deserve to be treated like that.
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:05pm
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I know. I think I've finally realized
that, too. I asked my mom if I could stay
with her and she was like "we have a full
house tonight." Really great. Last night
she said she would always be there for
me.
My dad isn't answering his phone. My best
friend is in Vermont. I don't know what
else to do. Nick stormed off somewhere but
I'm just emotionally exhausted and don't
really want to be here when he gets back.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:24pm
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katie do you have anyone any friends at
all that you could stay with? go through
your myspace and ask your friends if they
have extra room for a while
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:26pm
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Just leave and go to your moms, she said
she'd always be there for you so remind
her of that, she's the one who said it.
I think you kind of need to just get away
all together.
Like I just told you on AIM, I'm only
going by what you've told us
but it doesn't sound very loving over
there, he needs to respect you and get
more control of himself and his emotions.
My opinion is, if you're staying for the
baby, you shouldn't. It's better to be
from a broken home, than in a broken home.
You know what I mean? A child doesn't want
to be around it's parents fighting all the
time and calling names and storming out of
the house, thats really really scary.
I don't know what to say to help you other
than counseling & maybe staying with
your family for a while (even though your
mom said it's a full house.) You don't
like the situation, so the only way to
make it better is to change it.
We <3 you.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:28pm
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terra i couldnt have said it better
katie babiies can tell when your sad or
frusterated. the thrive and rely off of
YOUR mood. so after the baby is born if
nick makes you mad/yells/screams/whatever
the baby will be caught in the middle of
it. he wouldnt understnd all of the
yelling. he would be scared. and then if
you get frusterated he would stress out
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:29pm
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My mom is at my aunt's. I can't just go
there. Also, it's like 40
minutes away and I have an eighth of a
tank of gas. I wouldn't make it. Everyone
I've called is either busy or not
answering.
I have really crappy friends.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:33pm
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Go to a hotel then? I'm sure it seems kind
of silly since it'd just be you and that's
like 50 bucks, but he needs to realize
that he can NOT treat you that way and get
away with it when he gives his little
apology. Saying "i'm sorry" means you will
try your hardest not to do it again, and
it doesn't seem like he tries very hard.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:33pm
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ugh
if i wasnt going to houston tomorrow id
have you come stay here
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arcadia
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:39pm
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If you're not happy, then you just need to
get out. If you don't do something about
it, you're just going to become more
unhappy almost by the minute. & It's
not healthy for a baby. You've got to do
something for yourself & your son,
Katie. Don't degrade yourself by letting
him treat you badly. You're better than
that.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:43pm
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katie
have you looked into gov assitance or a
womens or pregnancy shelter? or a crisi
center? i bet someone would seriously be
able to help you there. maybe apply for
govt housing assistance or section 8?
that way they can help you get a place to
go while you get back on your feet
ily
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young Girl
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:49pm
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| HcoBrunette06
wrote: | | Go to a hotel then? I'm sure
it seems kind of silly since it'd just be
you and that's like 50 bucks, but he needs
to realize that he can NOT treat you that
way and get away with it when he gives his
little apology. Saying "i'm sorry" means
you will try your hardest not to do it
again, and it doesn't seem like he tries
very hard. |
i don't have any money. hence i said i
have no gas.
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:52pm
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thanks, suzy. we are waiting to hear back
from HUD, actually. i want to just do it
by myself, though.
i tried calling a shelter the night nick
got arrested but they said i seemed safe,
so they couldnt do anything about it 
i just don't understand. i want to cry.
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O0o0h_baby
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:58pm
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I've been right where you are, and now
looking back 10 years on it, I remember
how hopeless and hurt I felt. I wish there
were something I could do for you other
than tell you it can be so much better.
Things will get better.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 01-12-08 19:59pm
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oh, I forgot you said you had no gas. My
bad.
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arcadia
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Posted: 01-12-08 20:01pm
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I don't want to seem rude.. I really,
really don't. But it just seems like you
keep making excuses, Katie. That's really
not healthy. I understand that you're a
strong, proud woman.. But if you need
help, you should seek it out, ya know? I
don't know. It just seems silly to suffer
for no reason.
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kaiteo
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Posted: 01-12-08 20:03pm
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I know. I just thought it sounded like I
was making excuses, but I'm really not
trying to. I'm being realistic.
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