pregnant no ejaculation ? Posted: 01-10-08 08:08am
Okay I am going into as much detail as
possilbe...
I am really paranoid. That is just how I
am. I have always been that way. Two weeks
ago my new boyfriend and I had sex. This
was the first time I had sex in well over
a year. I noticed my abdomen kind of
hurting the next day and when I mentioned
it to my co-workers they started telling
me that I could be pregnant because I had
sex the day after I ended my period. I
thought it just hurt because I haven't had
sex in a long time.
I resured them and myself that I thought I
wasn't because he didn't even cum. Like he
had taken painkillers that morning and
everytime he does he says he can never
ejaculate. So we just had sex for awhile
until we both got tired and he had to pee
and then we just kind of well...stopped.
So there was no cum AND he was wearing a
condom on top of that incase there was any
pre-cum or whatever.
My Co-worker then starts to go on and on
about tiny unoticable holes that can be in
condoms that the precum could have went
through to get me pregnant, one part of me
was thinking "Yeah whatever blah blah this
is all caca she is trying to scare me."
but the other part of me began to worry.
Eventually the worry took over and I have
been driving myself nuts worrying about
this.
I am showing some sypmtoms like the pain
in my stomach, hearrt bearn and having to
pee a lot. My breasts don't hurt and I
didn't ever have any "implication
bleeding" or whatever it's called. My
friends all tell me that I am crazy and by
worrying I am giving myself the heart burn
and stomach aches. I want to believe them
but my paranoia leads me think I am.
So I guess...any advice?
What point should I wait to go take the
pregnancy test?
What is the chance that I am pregnant from
that situation?
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Carifairy
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Posted: 01-10-08 09:09am
FIRST things first..
You cannot in ANY WAY be pregnant 1 day
after sex. Pregnancy is not INSTANT *POOF*
you are pregnant. So the pain the nest day
COULD NOT HAVE BEEN PREGNANCY.
PREGNANCY is a process that takes 2 FULL
WEEKS.
First you have sex.. IF you have actually
ovulated and have had sex in the window
where you are fertile, then CONCEPTION has
to happen.
Conception/fertilization takes 2-3 DAYS...
Then you are still not pregnant yet. THEN
it takes 7-14 days for IMPLANTATION to
occur.
IMPLANTATION is when you are pregnant, but
you would not have symptoms for another
few weeks. This is because pregnancy
symptoms are caused by the large amounts
of pregnancy hromones in your body, and
this does not happen for a short time
after pregnancy.
CONDOMS are just not as effective as BC
pills, IUD's, and Implants. IF YOU ARE
REALLY PARANOID, then you should take BC
pills.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-10-08 14:11pm
You're probably not pregnant.
It's all in your head. But take a test if
you are concerned.
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Livingdreams08
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Posted: 01-10-08 18:53pm
Carifairy
wrote:
FIRST things first..
You cannot in ANY WAY be pregnant 1 day
after sex. Pregnancy is not INSTANT *POOF*
you are pregnant. So the pain the nest day
COULD NOT HAVE BEEN PREGNANCY.
PREGNANCY is a process that takes 2 FULL
WEEKS.
First you have sex.. IF you have actually
ovulated and have had sex in the window
where you are fertile, then CONCEPTION has
to happen.
Conception/fertilization takes 2-3 DAYS...
Then you are still not pregnant yet. THEN
it takes 7-14 days for IMPLANTATION to
occur.
IMPLANTATION is when you are pregnant, but
you would not have symptoms for another
few weeks. This is because pregnancy
symptoms are caused by the large amounts
of pregnancy hromones in your body, and
this does not happen for a short time
after pregnancy.
CONDOMS are just not as effective as BC
pills, IUD's, and Implants. IF YOU ARE
REALLY PARANOID, then you should take BC
pills.
I wish I could take birth control pills
but I won't be 18 for four more months and
there is no way in hell my mom would EVER
even THINK about leting me take birth
control
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-11-08 11:27am
As long as you were using a good brand of
condoms (lifestyles, durex, trojans, etc)
there are probably not holes in them.
You could always go to planned parenthood
and get pills if you want, your parents
don't have to know.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 01-13-08 12:39pm
You do not need PARENTAL CONSENT for birth
control or any sexual health services.
This is not a 'new' law, or anything
special, this is how the ENTIRE US works
You can get BC without your parents
consent, knowledge, or permission.
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Livingdreams08
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Joined: 10 Jan 2008 Posts: 7
Posted: 01-21-08 20:42pm
Thanks. Everyone updated info. So I
stopped worrying and all of my "symptoms"
went away. For the past week or so I have
been cool and confident that I am allright
but today I started my period and noticed
that is it extremely light. Like there was
only a small amout of blood probably only
a little bit bigger than a quarter on my
pad.
Describe light. Am I just making myself
worry again or is this a sign?
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-21-08 20:56pm
i dont think your pregnant
like the other people said you can go to
planned parenthod and get birth control
for FREE without a parent or you could
use condoms.
trust me if your scared of your mom
finding out you had sex then how scared
would you be to tell her your pregnant?
it sopunds like your starting your period
not all periods just come on heavy
sometimes its light then it gets normal
or you could
use condoms.
