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Q: pregnant no ejaculation ?
asked by: Livingdreams08 on January 10th, 2008
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Okay I am going into as much detail as possilbe...

I am really paranoid. That is just how I am. I have always been that way. Two weeks ago my new boyfriend and I had sex. This was the first time I had sex in well over a year. I noticed my abdomen kind of hurting the next day and when I mentioned it to my co-workers they started telling me that I could be pregnant because I had sex the day after I ended my period. I thought it just hurt because I haven't had sex in a long time.

I resured them and myself that I thought I wasn't because he didn't even cum. Like he had taken painkillers that morning and everytime he does he says he can never ejaculate. So we just had sex for awhile until we both got tired and he had to pee and then we just kind of well...stopped. So there was no cum AND he was wearing a condom on top of that incase there was any pre-cum or whatever.

My Co-worker then starts to go on and on about tiny unoticable holes that can be in condoms that the precum could have went through to get me pregnant, one part of me was thinking "Yeah whatever blah blah this is all caca she is trying to scare me." but the other part of me began to worry. Eventually the worry took over and I have been driving myself nuts worrying about this.

I am showing some sypmtoms like the pain in my stomach, hearrt bearn and having to pee a lot. My breasts don't hurt and I didn't ever have any "implication bleeding" or whatever it's called. My friends all tell me that I am crazy and by worrying I am giving myself the heart burn and stomach aches. I want to believe them but my paranoia leads me think I am.

So I guess...any advice?

What point should I wait to go take the pregnancy test?

What is the chance that I am pregnant from that situation?
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Carifairy
replied on January 10th, 2008
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FIRST things first..

You cannot in ANY WAY be pregnant 1 day after sex. Pregnancy is not INSTANT *POOF* you are pregnant. So the pain the nest day COULD NOT HAVE BEEN PREGNANCY.

PREGNANCY is a process that takes 2 FULL WEEKS.

First you have sex.. IF you have actually ovulated and have had sex in the window where you are fertile, then CONCEPTION has to happen.

Conception/fertilization takes 2-3 DAYS... Then you are still not pregnant yet. THEN it takes 7-14 days for IMPLANTATION to occur.

IMPLANTATION is when you are pregnant, but you would not have symptoms for another few weeks. This is because pregnancy symptoms are caused by the large amounts of pregnancy hromones in your body, and this does not happen for a short time after pregnancy.


CONDOMS are just not as effective as BC pills, IUD's, and Implants. IF YOU ARE REALLY PARANOID, then you should take BC pills.
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Georgia59
replied on January 10th, 2008
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You're probably not pregnant.

It's all in your head. But take a test if you are concerned.
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Livingdreams08
replied on January 10th, 2008
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Carifairy wrote:
FIRST things first..

You cannot in ANY WAY be pregnant 1 day after sex. Pregnancy is not INSTANT *POOF* you are pregnant. So the pain the nest day COULD NOT HAVE BEEN PREGNANCY.

PREGNANCY is a process that takes 2 FULL WEEKS.

First you have sex.. IF you have actually ovulated and have had sex in the window where you are fertile, then CONCEPTION has to happen.

Conception/fertilization takes 2-3 DAYS... Then you are still not pregnant yet. THEN it takes 7-14 days for IMPLANTATION to occur.

IMPLANTATION is when you are pregnant, but you would not have symptoms for another few weeks. This is because pregnancy symptoms are caused by the large amounts of pregnancy hromones in your body, and this does not happen for a short time after pregnancy.


CONDOMS are just not as effective as BC pills, IUD's, and Implants. IF YOU ARE REALLY PARANOID, then you should take BC pills.



I wish I could take birth control pills but I won't be 18 for four more months and there is no way in hell my mom would EVER even THINK about leting me take birth control
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Georgia59
replied on January 11th, 2008
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As long as you were using a good brand of condoms (lifestyles, durex, trojans, etc) there are probably not holes in them.

You could always go to planned parenthood and get pills if you want, your parents don't have to know.
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Carifairy
replied on January 13th, 2008
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You do not need PARENTAL CONSENT for birth control or any sexual health services.

This is not a 'new' law, or anything special, this is how the ENTIRE US works Smile

You can get BC without your parents consent, knowledge, or permission.
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Livingdreams08
replied on January 21st, 2008
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Thanks. Everyone updated info. So I stopped worrying and all of my "symptoms" went away. For the past week or so I have been cool and confident that I am allright but today I started my period and noticed that is it extremely light. Like there was only a small amout of blood probably only a little bit bigger than a quarter on my pad.

Describe light. Am I just making myself worry again or is this a sign?
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young Girl
replied on January 21st, 2008
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i dont think your pregnant

like the other people said you can go to planned parenthod and get birth control for FREE without a parent Very Happy or you could use condoms.
trust me if your scared of your mom finding out you had sex then how scared would you be to tell her your pregnant?

it sopunds like your starting your period
not all periods just come on heavy
sometimes its light then it gets normal
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