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Q: Ejaculation and sex trouble

asked by: DoctorQuestion on January 10th, 2008

The info above is realted to my boyfriend.

I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 3 months. We have a healthy sexual relationship. But during sex I am unable to make him ejaculate. I can make him ejaculate with oral sex (althought it is hard work). I have never had this problem before. He says it always takes him a while and generally speaking he wont come but he has with previous girlfriends. Its just making me slightly paranoid why he cant come, although he says it doesnt bother him. I have asked a couple of close friends about this but they have never had this prob either. He has no problem keeping an erection. He is 27 years old.
Thanks.

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Dr. Nikola Gjuzelov , MD

replied on January 30th, 2008

Sexual Health - Men Answer A3545

If lack of ejaculation doesn’t bother your boyfriend, then there is nothing to be worried about. You might try oral sex as a method to promote orgasm... but it's not clear whether he can’t or doesn’t like to cum. Maybe he is very fond of oral sex he is preserving himself for oral sex. Or perhaps he is very potent lover and it is hard to satisfy such persons.

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