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Katrinadoodle

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Funeral Etiquette?
Posted: 01-09-08 22:39pm

The funeral for my friend Erica is on Saturday... do you have to wear black, or are dark colors fine? I want to show Erica the respect she deserves, but I don't have any black clothes that fit anymore, I'm still in maternity clothes and I don't have any way to get new clothes before the funeral.
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yellow ribbon

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Posted: 01-09-08 23:16pm

i dunno i wore black to the only funeral i went to and i wasnt paying attention to everyone else. do you at least have a black shirt you could wear? can you borrow clothes from anyone a lil bigger than you?
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Eyes Wide Shut

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Posted: 01-09-08 23:19pm

Honestly, people are going to be grieving and the last thing on their minds will be clothing. Or at least that's how I think it should be!

I think that even a dark purple, or dark blue shirt with some dark blue jeans should be fine.

I'm soo sorry and you will be in my thoughts this weekend!!

Sarah
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Katrinadoodle

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Posted: 01-09-08 23:20pm

Nope. I have three shirts that fit... two long-sleeved striped shirts, one green and one red, and a dark maroon blouse. And two pairs of pants, a dark grey pair and a rust pair.

None of my friends are my size, they're all either way smaller, or way bigger. The one friend who is my size has a much bigger chest, so none of her shirts would fit right.
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Posted: 01-09-08 23:36pm

dark grey and the maroon shirt Very
Happy
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Posted: 01-09-08 23:39pm

Yep, the maroon shirt with the dark grey pants.
You don't necessarily have to wear all black to a funeral. Dressy clothing is fine. It's just not the proper time to wear your brightest outfit, either.
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Posted: 01-09-08 23:44pm

babymajic0506 wrote:
Honestly, people are going to be grieving and the last thing on their minds will be clothing. Or at least that's how I think it should be!

Sarah


Exactly. I agree with Suzy too. Dark grey pants and the maroon shirt. You are in my prayers.
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Katrinadoodle

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Posted: 01-09-08 23:47pm

I don't think I should wear the maroon top.. it's a nice shirt, but it's low cut and shows off a lot of cleavage.

I think my mom still has her "skinny" clothes... tonight I'm going to go through them and see if there's anything nice in there.
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young Girl

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Posted: 01-09-08 23:54pm

the last funeral i went too i wore yellow green and white
because those were ishmaels favorite colors.
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Katrinadoodle

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Posted: 01-10-08 00:05am

Erica's favorite color was pink, and I don't own any pink clothing, maternity or regular XD

I'm bringing a bunch of pink and white roses for her... they were her favorite.
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tinkinpink84

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Posted: 01-10-08 14:37pm

hmm, i dont think it should really matter what you wear, you just had a baby anyways so they should understand just dont wear something like bright yellow or something like that.
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tinkinpink84

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Posted: 01-10-08 14:38pm

hmm, i dont think it should really matter what you wear, you just had a baby anyways so they should understand just dont wear something like bright yellow or something like that.
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Ani_stasia

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Posted: 04-17-08 12:43pm

Don't know if this is too late, but wear what ever you want to wear. The etiquette for funerals is just to wear something respectful and conservative. The last funeral I attended I wore dark grey pants and a white button down shirt.
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