Why Do I Bother

WAITT!!! What happened???

Was it something specific??


Why is everyone feeling like this about the forum all of a sudden???

Sarah

what happened

i kinda feel like that too, hell ive always seemed to feel like that on here but i love trying to help people so i stay...i always seem to feel like no one cares about anything i post, even pictures, when i do post some i get maybe 5 responces when everyone else gets liike 50...its bugs me

~alicia~

Oh girls, there are some post of mine where I don't get ANY responses. I appreciate you being here because you do respond to my post and have helped tremendously with my recent sleeping crisis with Brayden. If you need to go for a bit do whats best for you but we do appreciate your posts and even if I personally don't always get the time to comment on pictures and such I do love to see them!

oh crap i missed something. i'm so sorry. was it a negative post or just an ignored post? eaither way i've been there. it's hard to keep up on here but i know how you feel.

i hope you don't leave. you're like, my favourite poster on here though just so you know, lol. you're always so smart and upbeat and thoughtful. whatever happened i hope it's nothing major. we all have our days where people just don't measure up and everything seems so crappy. i was just feeling bad because i simply can't respond to every post on here. even right now, it's 3 am and i really shouldn't be typing because i might wake eadie but oh well, it's like, the only real ME time i get when i really ought to be sleeping. and i'm so sleep deprived that i keep saying and doing stupid things. i know from your other post that you were feeling a bit discouraged and upset about not getting out. maybe it's time to make yourself a priority and let everyone know that you need some "me time" to recharge your batteries. we women have a hard time asking for and making sure we get what we want even though we give and give and give. sometimes you just gotta say "enough" and take a little (time, love, tlc or whatever.)

anyway, seriously, hope you feel better really soon cuz you're awesome and i hate to see you feeling down. cheer up buttercup!

i hope you dont leave. you're a valuable member of ehealth and everybody loves you here. i know what you mean though. sometimes i feel the same about being on here, but i just love to help people. sometimes i feel my posts are somtimes ignored, especially when i really need the help. it angers me off, but i know posts can sometimes be missed because it gets so busy. pm me if you want to talk. cheer up. i hope everything turns out okay for you. remember i'm here if you want to talk.
Rose x

Thanks for the positive thoughts, everyone. I am not upset by anyon'es actions here. I just am in a very negative space right now and I don't want to say the wrong thing to somebody. I try to always stay positive on the forums no matter what is being said or by whom, or what is going on, but since I am feeling overwhelmed in my own life it's becomeing hard and I don't want to be cynical or negative here. Nobody really deserves the brunt of my despair at this point. I hope that makes sense. And sometimes I don't think that anyone reads the stuff I write when they ask for advice, so it feels like its a waste of my time. I'm glad to know somebody reads all that drivel though! LOL I am still here, but it might be a lot quiter from my neck of the woods for a while until I get my head dug out of my proverbial you-know-what.

heather! i value your advice! sometimes we all need a little break though.

is everything ok? winter blues?