I am wanting to get the copper IUD after weight gain on the pill/inconvenience of having to take the pill / don't like the idea of hormones...
I mean yeah there's a chance it can leave your uterus and wander around your abdomen, and you hear about that stuff a lot online (think about it, are you more likely to share your experience with others if it was problem free or if it ended with you getting surgery?)... but you can have strokes on the pill. spermicide increases hiv transmission. Condoms may cause cancer and the lube on them increases risk of UTI, which can turn into a kidney infection and cause permanent bladder dysfunction. Tubes tied can cause pregnancy outside the uterus. There's risks to everything... from what I've read, IUD insertion from a good, experienced doctor is pretty risk-free. It seems like the main risks are in the first few weeks... if something's going to happen, it's then. Once you get past that, you're virtually worry free from what I've read.
I really really want it, just have to make sure I am safe with copper (I am allergic to spermicide and possibly latex over long term exposure...)