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Zanny

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Jenny's Surgery
Posted: 01-07-08 20:47pm

Hey again guys.

It's Jenny's operation on wednesday & today it finally hit me. She was crying & I was cuddling her & trying to settle her.. & I suddenly started crying my eyes out too. I know it's hardly major surgery, but there's a risk with any general anaesthetic & the fact that this op is technically "unnecessary" just makes it even worse. If anything happened to her it would be my fault for choosing to go ahead with it. I'm sorry, I sound stupid.. but it's just how I feel right now.

Any support would be greatly appreciated.

Oh & I just want to apologise now if I've missed any important posts.. I'm not able to get on the internet very much these days so if I haven't replied then I'm sorry & I hope you understand. You know I love you guys.
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moldedbymercy88

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Posted: 01-07-08 20:57pm

You and Jenny are definitely in my prayers. I'm not exactly what the surgery is, but I'm sure you would only do it if you thought it was what's best for you. There is no doubt that you love that little girl with all of your heart. But, don't go in thinking it would be your fault. You wouldn't allow harm to come to her. She'll be fine. Soon you will be holding her in your arms and this will be a distant memory.
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AyaMiyaki

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Posted: 01-07-08 20:58pm

Oh wow, Wednesday! I'll definitely be thinking of her and you too! Please take a picture of her hand before she goes in. I love you, Zan!!
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yellow ribbon

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Posted: 01-07-08 22:04pm

aw Zanny itll be ok! shell be happy when shes older it was done when she was small, you dont want mean kids in school to hurt her feelings
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jessesgirl

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Posted: 01-07-08 22:24pm

She'll thank you when she's older. Everything will be fine. I feel your upset though. I would be too. We don't like seeing our kids in pain.
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young Girl

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Posted: 01-07-08 22:51pm

zanny i will be thinking of you guys on wednsday! it will all go smoothly!
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Eyes Wide Shut

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Posted: 01-07-08 23:08pm

AWWW!!!

I would be upset too!! Any mommy would!!

Like Laura said, make sure you take before and after pics!!!

Sarah
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michelle1981

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Posted: 01-07-08 23:31pm

I'll be thinking of you guys!
Good luck!
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 01-08-08 01:21am

Love you Zanny, you'll be in my thoughts too! Smile
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Shanyan

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Posted: 01-08-08 08:27am

Good luck.....I will keep you and Jenny in my thoughts:) I am sure that everything will be fine, it is natural for a mommy to be scared when it comes to our babies.
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OctoberBaby06

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Posted: 01-08-08 08:48am

Good luck! I'll be thinking of you guys!
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Bridget

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Posted: 01-08-08 08:51am

good luck! i'm sure everything will go very smoothly. give jenny lots of snuggles for us!
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mamaTT

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Posted: 01-08-08 08:51am

I'm sure everything will be just fine!!!
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd

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Posted: 01-08-08 09:57am

~*hugs*~ to you and jenny
we are all praying for her hun she will do fine
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Posted: 01-08-08 10:19am

Aww, Zan you guys will be in my thoughts! I can't imagine how scary this must be for you. But once Jenny comes out from surgery you'll feel much better. Give Jenny hugs from us!
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Becky

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Posted: 01-08-08 12:57pm

I'll be thinking of you hun. just sent you a text
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rosejackson

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Posted: 01-08-08 14:53pm

good luck. imm sure everything will go well x
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Flurries in the air

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Posted: 01-08-08 17:55pm

I am sure everything will be fine!
does any1 know what the surgery is for?
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Bridget

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Posted: 01-08-08 18:40pm

winter_child wrote:
does any1 know what the surgery is for?


she was born with an extra thumb and they wanted to wait until after her 1st birthday to remove it.
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Zanny

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Posted: 01-08-08 20:18pm

Thank you so much guys.. I'll let you know how it all goes.

Sorry to those who didn't know what the surgery was for, I should have explained in my original post. Yep, tomorrow she'll have 10 fingers just like everybody else.
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