I can relate to the swelling of the stomach area slightly above the incision and the swelling and the discomfort over the incision as well...
I had my mesh open surgery on left groin 2 months ago today and the doctor one month ago said I did not need to see him again. I made another appointment for today because it has been one month since then and I do not see any improvements at all.
It is a dull numb and swollen area. I weigh 135 lbs.. Tylenol does not help reduce anything and I can feel the pull/tightness of the area... Some days exercising just walking is enough but doesn't take the feeling away. I think these surgeons already know that you may slowly or never feel the ways you did before.
I have been told it takes upto a year in some cases to even feel better. From my experience.. I would say that it has ruined the quality of my life. I am depressed more now than ever and no one truly understands the discomfort unless they went through it...
It must still be healing because the scar tissue is still bumpy and it changes over time from one hard mass to another bumpy mass.
It feels very uncomfortable and at times you can feel the pinching and itchiness over the scar...
The stomach bloating is small for me but it is real and it is there on that side where the hernia was...
Sometimes ..lately more often I can feel the discomfort near the balls on that side where the hernia was done...
I am truly sorry about all of these feelings...bot only for me but for everyone who has gone through this.
It took an otherwise healthy and active and thin 45 year old man like myself into a terribly lonley and do nothing summer in NJ
I only wish I had known all these feelings before..but then again everyone is different.
Truly sad .. I do not know if I ever will feel the same again and that in itself has forever remained in my brain from the minute i go to sleep to the minute I wake up...nothing but anxiety
I will let all know what the surgeon says today...they got payed and sent you on your way...but i am not going to be a number in the countless millions that have surgery and have minor complications. You must talk with your surgeon despite their lack of bedside manner...
Obviously the older you get the worse and longer it is to heal...and that is the worst part of the whole thing...the waiting!!!!