there are a number of people who have allergies to normal water based lubricants. i dont think oil based ones are good to use on any kind of regular basis as they can disrupt the balance in the vagina. i know there is a type of lubricant you can buy that people with such an allergy as yours can use, i cant remember the name of the product though. i had a search online, try google yesyesyes is there anything there might be useful for you?

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Yeah- What type of lubricants are you using? There are lots of different kinds, water based, oil based, silicone based.. perhaps a different one will work better for you.

try different brands with different chemical components, your problem sounds like an allergy.