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Q: I Guess I Get What I Wanted...sorta
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Electriceyes
Extremely eHealthy
IF he moves to Tenn. that means Dallas can raise this baby as his own without the interference of Devon which we both some what want.
As much as I dislike Devon I DON'T want him out of my life and that far away. I mean this IS his baby to, He should be a part of his life. He still thinks it would be best for me to give him up but the fact that I AM keeping him doesn't make him dislike me or not want to be a part of his child's life. Or so I thought.
I still care for Devon a little then again I will always in some way care for all of my exes. But this was just a HUGE shock to me and makes me a bit upset that he's just now telling me this. We're really good friends so I would have thought I'd have known sooner.
I hope he decides to not go.
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young Girl
Especially eHealthy
why is he moving
manohman
this is sucky
manohman
this is sucky
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Sandbox Party
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Electriceyes
Extremely eHealthy
Suzy- I asked why he is moving and I have not got a response and probably wont until some time tomorrow.
It is very sucky
Sandy- He did say he wants to be a part of the baby's life no matter what I did. Keep him or give him up (we would have done open adoption with a family friend)
That is EXACTLY why he wanted me to give up the baby and well because of our ages. He has a temp job working with him mom now till march and is looking for a full time. Well was looking. I told him he didn't have to provide for the baby and he said ok but he'd still help out when he could. He's more worried about finishing college.
I agree. It would be nice for him to know his real father. He can be a great guy most of the time and would make a wonderful dad. I know I can't stop him but I wish I could. I just think he's not ready to be a dad at all.
It is very sucky
Sandy- He did say he wants to be a part of the baby's life no matter what I did. Keep him or give him up (we would have done open adoption with a family friend)
That is EXACTLY why he wanted me to give up the baby and well because of our ages. He has a temp job working with him mom now till march and is looking for a full time. Well was looking. I told him he didn't have to provide for the baby and he said ok but he'd still help out when he could. He's more worried about finishing college.
I agree. It would be nice for him to know his real father. He can be a great guy most of the time and would make a wonderful dad. I know I can't stop him but I wish I could. I just think he's not ready to be a dad at all.
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young Girl
Especially eHealthy
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Sandbox Party
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Electriceyes
Extremely eHealthy
yeah,
Well, i've always heard boys mature faster girls just show it sooner lol
I'm a generally though girl so I know no matter what I'll get through it
Well, i've always heard boys mature faster girls just show it sooner lol
I'm a generally though girl so I know no matter what I'll get through it
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Electriceyes
Extremely eHealthy
| Sandy_Pants wrote: |
| well you are both young.. it was scary when i became a mom at 23.. i cant imagine being 16 or 17 with a baby. I'm proud of you guys for being so responsible about keeping the baby. It shows maturity and that you are being responsible for your own actions.
He'll come around. Especially if he manages to be there when the baby is born. |
I told him he WILL be there when the baby is born..as long as it's not 4 am 'cuz he wont drive 40 mins at that time of day. but if he's at wrok he'll just have to leave
.. I really hope he comes around
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Sandbox Party
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Electriceyes
Extremely eHealthy
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Sandbox Party
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young Girl
Especially eHealthy
| princess6591 wrote: | ||
I told him he WILL be there when the baby is born..as long as it's not 4 am 'cuz he wont drive 40 mins at that time of day. but if he's at wrok he'll just have to leave .. I really hope he comes around |
girl i wnet in labor at 4:18 am lol
travis has never jumped out of bed so fast in his LIFE
i said" trav wake up the babies comming"
and in 5.2 seconds he was UP lol
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Electriceyes
Extremely eHealthy
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Electriceyes
Extremely eHealthy
Well, he mailed me back this morning and the reason I "b/c I just want outa Michigan"
I told him I don't want him that far away.
I told him I don't want him that far away.
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yellow ribbon
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| the_girlfriend wrote: | ||||
girl i wnet in labor at 4:18 am lol travis has never jumped out of bed so fast in his LIFE i said" trav wake up the babies comming" and in 5.2 seconds he was UP lol |
man i woulda loved to see is face lol
ashley with that kind of reason i would doubt hes going anywhere, he prob just had a bad day.
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Electriceyes
Extremely eHealthy
I hope he stays. He's said he was moving before. But that wasn't going to be until his gf graduates in may..so i doubt he's gonna leave anytime soon if at all
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yellow ribbon
Especially eHealthy
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Electriceyes
Extremely eHealthy
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yellow ribbon
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