so idk where to start....well i live in
america for 5 years and
well basically I live with my mom and my
stepdad, and he is the biggest problem
ever. My mom had my little sister 3 years
ago, and she does everything by herself
for her. My stepdad didnt buy my sister
one shirt nothing, zero, except like
couple of toys. He never buys presents for
anyone, even for like new years nothing.
He used to hit my mom until ic alled the
cops and he went to jail for it. But my
mom cant divorce him now because she just
lost her job, and she has a little baby.
He never did anything for me, we have 3
cars and he will never even drive me to
school, EVER! He treats my mom like crap,
he puts her down for everything. She cries
like everyday. She does everything around
the house, and he never even says thank u!
When she was sick he never even went to
buy her medicine, nothing, treated her
like she was disease or something. When my
sister was 4 months old, he bought a house
with his ex wife and didnt even tell us
about it, but then i found a mail bout it.
My mom wants to divorce him so bad, but we
just dont know wat we r going to do about
this. Today they had another fight,
because he said he will go to Russia for
however long he wants to and wotn leave us
any money, or anything! He had like 5
wives, and 6 kids. He calls my bf
blackasses because he is arabic, and he
has a half arabic grandaughter! He
disrespects me so much too! He hit me too
before and went to jail for it. Idk
everything is just so messed up....idk
what to do. He is the "president" of a
company, and we have zero, like honestly
he bought me a scarf since my mom maried
him. There is jsut so much more but i dont
want to type it all =[ I just feel so
depressed and sad. And he wont let me
drive those 3 cars because he is an
problem, he wont even like buy food for
the house. My mom has to buy it. She does
everythnig literally! Cooks, cleans,
watches my sister, pays for her daycare,
buys all of us clothes. He doesnt even
love my sister. He doesnt love any of his
kids, he never calls them or is involved
in their life. He left all of them when
they were little to like basically starve!
Please help me, if my mom divorces him i
want to get every penny out of him, for
everything he did!
sorry for venting =[ but i just feel so
sad and depressed idk what to do
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-06-08 16:36pm
she needs to get away from him
if hes not contributing any what does it
matter if she lost her job?
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Flurries in the air
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 388 Location: Chicago
Posted: 01-06-08 16:38pm
the_girlfriend
wrote:
she needs to get away from
him
if hes not contributing any what does it
matter if she lost her
job?
because now we have no money at all. He
wont give us any money, and my mom has no
job to get money. If she gets away from
him, where are we gonan go and how are we
going to pay for it.