13 And Having Sex !!! (Page 1)

tell your mother if you want to help her
she could have an std of somethng and she needs to get pap tests done now
if you let it go then something can happen in the long run and you might feel bad

Tell your mother. She needs to know exactly what is going on with her child, because she is a CHILD and she is putting herself at risk for diseases and pregnancy..

You should tell your mother. But telling your mother isn't going to stop her from having sex.

I know what you're feeling and trust me, your going to feel bad but you'll be helping her out soooo much. You could be preventing her from being really hurt.

I think tell your mom in person, and don't panic because you'll cause her to panic. Tell her you need to talk to her about something important and say that you are concerned about your sister. She's not going to be very happy, but you need to be her strong spot for a few minutes until she comes to.

Good luck!

id tell your mom in person and maybe sit her down by herself and then you and your mom can go talk to your sis?

I would tell your mother asap before your sister has a chance to leave her and go off and do something else that is equally stupid.

hey megan i pmed you

Okay guys I told my mom, she wasnt Mad just upset. She talked to Melissa and told her she isnt alowd over their any more. But her b.f Jared can come over when both her and dad are home. So i feel a lot better now! Thanks guys!!

Oh and Yes her b/f and my husband have the same name just spelled diff.

Mine= Jarad Hers= Jared Lol. I found that funny!

I'm glad it went well : D

Did you guys talk about getting her on bc tho? Probably still a good idea! Those tricky teen : )

Yes, moms taking her.

Wahoooo! Thank goodness she has a sister like you : )

I think first you should try convincing your Sister about how sex is and when to do it and why. It depends on how old you are. I mean if my sister would've been doing sex i would take her for a check in the doctor but before that i would try to convince her why she shouldn't do it with a guy she just met. After taking her to the doctor she will probably be convinved a little because i would let the doctor help me out by telling my sister about different diseases she might get by doing that same thing like that and because he is professional she would probably would understand more i mean for a girl age of 13, she has to be a little mature to understands, special when she has her sister worrying about her. I wouldn't tell my mom because i wouldn't like she doing the same thing to me, and because im her big brother i should take care of her more. So if my life matches with yours, i think you should just think about it before telling your mom, I think you should just try to convince her, because she won't stop making sex, she probably would if somebody almost her age would tell her about it.

Oh and Megan you are a good SISTER =) just think about it, take you time, but not much =) i know you will do the right thing if you should or shouldn't your still helping your sister, Take care of her alot because litle girls these days are being with guys who they don't even know really. Show her what you know, show her what she suppose to know to survive in this world. Don't worry about about it, she will understand, just that don't make her understand once the damage has been done, try to show her now that she's ok.

Hope my Advice helps you. Continue being a great SISTER. You do a great job at it =)

Over all it is up to you. She told you because she trust you not to though. I started having sex at 13 too. I told my mom at that age too, but when I myself way ready. She may just be calling out for help. Moving is stressful at any age. Talk to her about it. Let her know she needs to uses condoms. Have safe sex.

well my little sister is 15 years old & she just gave her boyfriend a hand job..who is 18, i thought that was big haha..if i EVER found out she was having sex with him, i'd kill him..

..but talk to yer sister about it first, tell her how you feel. then tell yer mother..