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love_pinkish

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Posted: 01-23-08 09:30am

stickyicky wrote:

That isn't cool that he isn't okay with it. Just explain to him that how can you expect to be pleased by him, if you can't please yourself...

You should be able to tell him and he should be able to accept it. Does he masturbate?

No he told me he doesn't feel the need to because he has me. I told him he should explore your body! He said I've done that before and it doesn't have an effect on him anymore. He gets more pleasure from me and he enjoys it with me more. I understand that because I enjoy it more with him too.

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mastebation Posted: 05-01-08 13:31pm


Yes most women at some stage do masturbate for many reasons. As i'm married&my wife works nights&sometimes i'm horny prior to going to sleep& i will play! It hasn't interferred with our love making & you adjust around time that works best. I know for myself if i have a good erection at night&in the morning i will masterbate&my wife has watched me& actually it has turned her on(to her benifit)as the next erection lasts even longer! As i have a larger than normall size penis i got a "Mould your own penis" kit&made a replica for her to use when i'm not availible. She was hesitant at first& become brave&now it is used frequently so much so her friend would like to try it! On the upside she has great orgasms(even with me)& afterwards she sleeps like a lamb! I recommend it for women who work different hours&find getting good sleep. Dispose of sleep medication&either "Get a mould" or buy a dildo they do work. Regardless if you are married or single.

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Guy's perspective. Posted: 05-07-08 23:40pm


to Lele25... I'm a guy, and i have a girlfriend (who i've been dating for 3 and a half years now) and i'm assuming you might want a guy's point of view... You said your MAN almost walked in on you... honestly... that would be THE sexiest thing imaginable. i would love to walk in on my girlfriend. however you do have to point out that that's a thing you keep between you and HIM. let him know its him that is on your mind. (which hopefully it would be). and you seriously should tell him. my girlfriend denies it, but i know her well enough to know she is just embarraced. if she told the truth it would make me feel so good. Remember, girls aren't the only one to be thought of as SEXY =]

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Posted: 05-18-08 17:05pm


I used to masturbate quite often and most of the time my husband remains out of station for his job. A few days back, a devastating thing happened. while on doing that, i forget to lock the door and my 18-year-old son entered my room. It was a pathetic situation and somehow i managed. After that i have lost all my courage to lock the door and do it again.

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Posted: 05-18-08 17:30pm


Oh boy that must have been a shock! As far as women masturbating, I'm not sure how many men realize that most women do not have orgasms during intercourse, but I bet it is not the majority. From what I understand European men are much more "in tune" with how their partner is feeling, and more of them make sure the woman has an orgasm each time they have sex than American men.* *This is anecdotal evidence.

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Posted: 05-21-08 10:16am


so after reading this, i have to ask, is it weird that I have never in my life masterbated? I think it is kind of strange to do it. I dont know that is just my personal opinion. My boyfriend has always told me he wants me to but i just wont, we are open about things like that because he occasionally does it while i am at school, but i just dont. I just needed some insight on if this is normal?

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Posted: 05-21-08 10:55am


It's normal to not masturbate, but you may want to try it once-- you may really like it!

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Posted: 05-21-08 11:53am


i have thought about it, it just seems like if i have a boyfriend why would i need to, but i guess it couldnt hurt to try it sometime

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Posted: 05-21-08 12:06pm


Yeah, I can see that reasoning. But I don't do it to substitue my boyfriend, I do it because I think it really enhances when we are together. It never hurts to try something new. If you aren't interested in doing it alone then maybe try doing it with your boyfriend? You may learn some things about yourself you didn't know-- things that you can of course relay to your boyfriend. But again, its perfectly normal to not be interested in doing it. Thoes are just some reasons I have for myself.