catonia
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Paraphilia and women
Posted: 01-05-08 16:14pm
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i'm a girl,15 and i have weird fetishes
and most likely a paraphilia!
i just wondered,am i the only female that
has these problems,or can many women have
them as well?
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catonia
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Posted: 01-05-08 16:32pm
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Not sure where to begin 
at first,i thought i had teratophilia,but
it doesn't quite fit.It's more of a liking
for hideous features e.g. axe homicide
look and devil features,on more
frightening side etc...
Trust me,it would all do your head in if i
tried to explain it all.
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Posted: 01-06-08 21:54pm
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anyone can have any kind of fetish, as
long as it does not harm anyone else there
is no reason to be worried about it.
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catonia
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Posted: 01-07-08 10:14am
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thanks.I am harmless with mine.
I discovered it's not Teratophilia,it's
just an interest that's a bit
different,nothing big.
I'll put a pic in my avatar and maybe
someone can tell me if the interest is
abnormal or not.
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Posted: 01-07-08 10:45am
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all this talk of 'normal' and 'abnormal',
it's ok, let it go! me personally i think
it is unusual, but unusual does not mean
bad. whatever floats your boat! anyone
who doesnt share your desires is more
likely to have a sense of humour about it
than to think you are strange. try to be
lighthearted about it! it is something
that makes you unique and individual.
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catonia
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Posted: 01-07-08 11:33am
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i've spoken to some people who are exactly
the same as me,about several of them,so i
don't feel as unusual now  i'm not the
only one,so that's a relief.
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Posted: 01-07-08 13:28pm
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And you're so young, your sexuality will
change and grow. At least you understand
what you like!
And of course women get fetishes!
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catonia
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Posted: 01-07-08 15:33pm
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Is my interest a fetish? I just keep
wondering if it's a paraphilia/fetish or
whatever.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-08-08 01:55am
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It could be, yes. But fetishes are kind've
on a range- most people have a fetish to
some extent, and some people have them
more strongly.
It's common to have some kind of fetish.
For some girls, it's cowboys. For you,
it's different. That's all.
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catonia
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Posted: 01-08-08 07:53am
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But it's not Teratophilia,right? as long
it's not that...
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-08-08 13:49pm
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You're the only one who can decide if it's
a particular fetish or not. But really,
you like what you like, who cares what
it's called!
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keen
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Posted: 01-08-08 13:56pm
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| catonia
wrote: | Not sure where to begin
at first,i thought i had teratophilia,but
it doesn't quite fit.It's more of a liking
for hideous features e.g. axe homicide
look and devil features,on more
frightening side etc...
Trust me,it would all do your head in if i
tried to explain it
all. |
Ok Im not clear do you need it to get off
sexually or it is just an interest not to
do with sex?
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catonia
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Posted: 01-08-08 15:44pm
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Sexual,and i want to get rid of it.How can
i stop these "unusual" desires???
I want to be like other girls my age 
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catonia
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Posted: 01-10-08 10:14am
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I did some research and it said that
Paraphilia is actually quite common! The
only Paraphiliacs which are considered
abnormal are those where the individual
acts upon their urges (e.g. pedophiles and
rapists etc...)e.g those who are a threat
to society or those who fantasize about
the Prepubescent(even if the individual
isn't a threat,it's still uncommon).
The info i gathered looks like i have the
harmless and more common side to unusual
fetishes/Paraphilia. 
I seem to be getting better as well over
the past 2 days 
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Posted: 01-10-08 10:57am
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you're still. very young to be getting so
worried over it. me personally my fetishes
have not changed from my childhood... for
as long as i can remember. but many people
find that what turns them on when they are
younger they may grow out of, or it may
grow into different interests. if it is
what you like and it is harming noone then
just enjoy it while you can and stop
worrying!
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catonia
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Posted: 01-10-08 11:36am
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Good idea.i found a helpful website anyway
that put my mind to rest
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catonia
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Posted: 01-27-08 08:39am
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I'm a bit confused.Yesterday,my dad
brought it up and he said it's not a
paraphilia,yet i once heard from someone
else it is :s
How can i tell whether it's a paraphilia
or not???
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