Because my sister was 15, turning 16 and she ran away all the way from california to nebraska to live with the guy she was going to "marry" and raise the baby out there, then my mom had her arrested out there for being a runaway, and my mom and dad drove all the ay out there nonstop, (3 days) to get her, brought her back and had her live here. My parents cared that much to have her home. Daniel (the dad) found a new girlfriend out there while my sister thought he was faithful and would be home soon. So now her and my mom are like best friends (mothers bonding) and daniel came back, they tried to work things out, it didnt happen and now he doesnt see the baby at all, shes going to be 1 and hes seen her maybe 5 times. Now shes at court as we speek getting him for child support and penalizing him for not using his visitation. Whew! Long story! Thats not even detail either! The baby is very beautiful. I can even take a picture of the both of them and email it to you if you want! My cell does that. Let me know if you want my story. I was there for everything. I spent many paychecks spoiling my sister buying anything she needed while pregnant. Oh yeah, then she got the disease pre-eclampsia and she had to deliver at 7 months, the baby weighed 4.1 pounds. And my sister wanted to give people trouble to pronounce her name so she named her "esperanza graciela martinez" my sister was in the hospital for a week. And they said the baby would be in there for 2 months but she did so good they let her out at one week later.
Ok so let me know if you want the whole story!