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Q: I Dont Trust My Partner
asked by: Babysmith2008 on January 5th, 2008
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Hello, im 6 n a half months pregnant and have been with my partner for 22 months and i am having trust issues (although he's never cheated) and am pushing my partner away and im scared im going to end up a single mum if i dont stop and would appreciate some advice.
Thanks in advance
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Happiness03
replied on January 5th, 2008
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Have you talked to him about this? I am so sorry you are feeling this way. I know how this can feel.
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mominashoe
replied on January 5th, 2008
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Pregnancy can do this to you. It's hard being pregnant and your hormones can send your mind out of control sometimes.

The best thing to do is to be honest with your partner. Telling him that it's about you and not about him......that it's the pregnancy that is giving you doubts and fears would be good. Having a child is a very big responsibility, and as you get closer to delivery, it gets scary. Maybe you just need to ask a little more reassurance and support from him because you are in such a vulnerable situation.

Let him know that he's the most awesome person in the world and that you can't do it without him. Smile
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Jenny600
replied on May 5th, 2009
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HI
Hi my partner has cheated on me several times and kicked me and my 2 year old son out and moved another woman in. He has settled down now but the trust is gone and I dont know if I'll ever get it back can anyone give me some advice, I am very unhappy with my life just now, I just want things to go back to normal.

Jennifer
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JavaMissus
replied on May 6th, 2009
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What is normal?...How long will he settle down?...Is this his child or yours from a previous relationship?...

What you want and what he is capable of giving are two different things....He has shown you that he will cheat on you and kick you out...Why do you stay?...

No matter what you say or how you think, you just can't find your yesterday....You must face life and do the best for you and your child...The child needs your guidance and love...The man is a user....

Good luck,
Caroline
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ServiceU
replied on May 19th, 2009
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babysmith2008,
your probably scared b/c your having a baby and you probably been hurt in the past. sometimes we carry our past in our current relationships. i have trust issues! this only means i m going to be very watchful with who i date. maybe time will heal if you are in a peaceful situation.

jenny600,
my ex of 5 years told me he's going to do everything in his power to make me leave the house. he told me to sleep in my son's room while he bring women in the house. i was so hurt i slept at the bottom of the bed. i left him, got my apartment, job, lost job apartment, had to live in a shelter. i have an apartment right now. and he cries for me to come back. i did all that b/c he like some women. she has since left him and treated him bad. anyway, this guy messed my head up. it's been two years and i still have issues for what he has done. so my advice is leave him and dont look back. you will never be happy with someone that treats you like that. he will always hurt you. guys sometimes do what women allow them to do.
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