My boyfriend and I have just been having
"normal" sex (vaginal and oral), and I
want to spice it up and surprise him. Any
ideas? I've always wanted to do something
kinky or be tied up. Other than that, I've
got some ideas for sexy outfits and have a
pair of handcuffs.
Any ideas?
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
Posted: 01-04-08 21:05pm
It really all depends on what you're up
for. Has he expressed anything he wants
in the bedroom that you were squeamish
about? What about sex toys?
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dot369
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Joined: 04 Jan 2008 Posts: 6
Posted: 01-04-08 22:31pm
The thing is that he is more experienced
than I am. I'm willing to try some new
things, and I want to shock him just a
little. A lot of people see me as a more
conservative personality - they just don't
know me - so I want to do something out of
character.
I'm pretty open to most suggestions. He
suggested we play with a vibrator, so I'd
like to try that. And he's really open
minded, in general, except when it comes
to anal.
So any suggestion on things I can do?
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
Posted: 01-04-08 23:55pm
Well, the vibrator thing is definitely a
possibility. I was amazed the first time
I used one and the fact that I loved it so
much really really turned him on. Also,
we talk dirty sometimes-we love that.
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unnamedny
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Joined: 31 Dec 2007 Posts: 103 Location: New York, USA
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Posted: 01-05-08 16:18pm
anal sex? just use condom and have a
special lube, then you'll both enjoy it.
By the way it's not messy as some people
think.
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lele25
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Posted: 01-05-08 19:27pm
Hubby and I like hand cuffs and
blindfolds. I would love to throw a
vibrator in the mix but not sure how he
would react. There's also sex dice that
are fun....1 die has instructions such as
"lick/kiss/grab_____" and the other die
has body parts. I got some at my
bachlorette party and we have enjoyed them
on numerous occasions! I would suggect
browsing around an Adult store or if that
makes you uncomfortable you can visit www.adameve.com
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Ohyes^
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2008 Posts: 1
Posted: 01-05-08 20:09pm
A vibrator is a
great addition to a couples lovemaking.
Pick one out yourself, or together for
even more fun. I would be involved in
getting your first one though so you can
pick something you will feel the most
comfortable trying. If you let him know
this is something your going to do for
"him" he will be crazy and ready to go
just from the thought of it. You could
tease him with the thought for a while and
then suprise him one day with a new toy.
Ladies if you dont know if this is
something your man will like you should!
Open up and talk , ask him what he likes
what turns him on and tell him what you
like and your own fantasies just doing
this can open up your world of lovemaking
to feelings you never knew you could give
each other.
A vibrator is a
great addition to a couples lovemaking.
Pick one out yourself, or together for
even more fun. I would be involved in
getting your first one though so you can
pick something you will feel the most
comfortable trying. If you let him know
this is something your going to do for
"him" he will be crazy and ready to go
just from the thought of it. You could
tease him with the thought for a while and
then suprise him one day with a new toy.
Ladies if you dont know if this is
something your man will like you should!
Open up and talk , ask him what he likes
what turns him on and tell him what you
like and your own fantasies just doing
this can open up your world of lovemaking
to feelings you never knew you could give
each other.