It really all depends on what you're up for. Has he expressed anything he wants in the bedroom that you were squeamish about? What about sex toys?

The thing is that he is more experienced than I am. I'm willing to try some new things, and I want to shock him just a little. A lot of people see me as a more conservative personality - they just don't know me - so I want to do something out of character.

I'm pretty open to most suggestions. He suggested we play with a vibrator, so I'd like to try that. And he's really open minded, in general, except when it comes to anal.

So any suggestion on things I can do?

Well, the vibrator thing is definitely a possibility. I was amazed the first time I used one and the fact that I loved it so much really really turned him on. Also, we talk dirty sometimes-we love that.

anal sex? just use condom and have a special lube, then you'll both enjoy it. By the way it's not messy as some people think.

Hubby and I like hand cuffs and blindfolds. I would love to throw a vibrator in the mix but not sure how he would react. There's also sex dice that are fun....1 die has instructions such as "lick/kiss/grab_____" and the other die has body parts. I got some at my bachlorette party and we have enjoyed them on numerous occasions! I would suggect browsing around an Adult store or if that makes you uncomfortable you can visit www.adameve.com

A vibrator is a great addition to a couples lovemaking. Pick one out yourself, or together for even more fun. I would be involved in getting your first one though so you can pick something you will feel the most comfortable trying. If you let him know this is something your going to do for "him" he will be crazy and ready to go just from the thought of it. You could tease him with the thought for a while and then suprise him one day with a new toy. Ladies if you dont know if this is something your man will like you should! Open up and talk , ask him what he likes what turns him on and tell him what you like and your own fantasies just doing this can open up your world of lovemaking to feelings you never knew you could give each other.