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Q: self-conscious girlfriend
asked by: impulser23 on January 4th, 2008
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Ok so heres the deal. My girlfriend is very self conscious of herself and is not the brightest of people. Ok so lets start with the main question. Lately she has been complaining how fat her face is....she is a 100lb girl about 5'2. Like she is sooo gorgeous, but when she tells me that she thinks her face is fat and she wants to get plastic surgery it kinda frightens me and i just dont know what to tell her to make her not think that way about herself. Ill even post a picture of her up here if im allowed to cuz she is not fat in the face. She does have alittle baby fat but its what makes her soo cute. Also a few days ago she told me she wanted to start smoking and she was goin to buy a pack of cigarretes and start smoking weed because she heard that it makes you skinnier in the face. I was very disappointed when i heard that and i told her how i felt but i just dont know how to tell her that all that crap is caca!!! We got alittle argument over it. Like overall she is a great gal and a great girlfriend but i jsut want to help her get over this self conscious thing.
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Jude-Love
replied on January 4th, 2008
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Your girlfriend obviously is obsessive enough about her weight that she's willing to harm herself to look skinnier. You might want to let her know that smoking doesn't make your face thinner-it drags it down and makes it look saggy. It also causes discoloration and wrinkles around your mouth. Hopefully she doesn't start doing those things in an attempt to make herself look better because it's going to have the opposite effect.
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impulser23
replied on January 4th, 2008
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i know i told her that. Like maybe im making this into a big deal. Like already told her about the smoking part. But im scared about the surgery part. She is goin to china over the summer and she says she wants to get a face job there. I also told her not to do that cuz then she is coming back as a different girl and not the one i fell inlove with.
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young Girl
replied on January 4th, 2008
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moved to the realtionships forum
boys are NOT allowed to post in womens chat
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