Even If I Am Going to Hell.... Posted: 01-04-08 18:48pm
So if I am going to Hell for my disbelief
in a all knowing god, even if I risk
eternal fire in the depths of the dark for
my love of the same gender, even if I am
damned forever because of my blasphemous,
alcohol-imbibing, dancing to rock music,
hippie activities, why do ultra religious
people care what happens to me after I
die? I am seriously wondering why my
salvation is so important to other people.
Just today I had a parking lot lecture by
a complete stranger because i have a
"Goddess is alive and magic is abound"
bumper sticker onmy car (along with gay
equality, and other stuff that's
controversial, I guess) who told me all
about the repurcussions of my "lifestyle"
Why
is this so important to others? Would
people not just be happy to spend eternity
in my absence if I am such a vile human?
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homerx
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Posted: 01-04-08 19:16pm
YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!!! I know exactly what
you mean. Some days I believe and some
days I don't and it isn't anybodies
business if I do or not. Those bible
thumping right wing zealots don't want
this gay man in there heaven anyway so
what is it to them if I have a Human
Rights Foundation bumper sticker and a
rain bow flag on my car? You keep on
keeping on, girlfriend!
Peace and Love,
Steve;)
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Birch
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Posted: 01-04-08 19:33pm
I wouldn't even want to be around this
jackwipe of a god who had this dude about
to kill his son and all that other
tomfoolery. He sounds like the devil to
me.
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Posted: 01-04-08 22:21pm
But my cousin whom I love and adore is a
christian, and actually was a youth group
director at a church until recently. The
thing is, she doesn't condemn me or fret
about my eternal soul. I would say that
most religious individuals don't much
think about the salvation of strangers.
But there are a few out there who insist
on telling me what they think of me. I
just wanted to know if anyone could give
me an idea as to why that is.
I don't want to turn this thread into a
thread about how awful Christians are,
because I think the majority of christians
are good people, just like I think the
majority of people are good people.
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Birch
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Posted: 01-04-08 23:28pm
Could we talk about how awful the religion
is? *bats eyes innocently*
Eh, nevermind. That's ever other thread.
Maybe people do it for the same reason I
get vocal with adults hitting
children-they think it's a good thing to
speak up and just can't help themselves if
they see this obvious transgression.
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kaerbear
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Posted: 01-05-08 01:12am
i'm a christian, or at least, i think of
myself as one, and i think you are a great
person. i wouldn't say i'm unconcerned
about the fate of your eternal soul, but,
it's not for me to say what that fate will
be. i believe in a loving god who
transcends these worldly and trivial
divisions we humans create amongst
ourselves. god is love and if you live
your life with love in your heart then god
lives there too and if god has something
to say to you all you have to do is listen
to your heart. people mean well, but,
like i said before, some put beliefs
before spirit. i think, if i can look at
a person and recognize someone who has a
strong spirit and a good heart, then i
don't have to worry about them.
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homerx
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Posted: 01-05-08 01:18am
You know, I think Jesus is really cool but
some of his followers give me the creeps!
GOD
is great but Religion separates and
alienates and splinters people into
judgmental little cubbyholes.
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kaerbear
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Posted: 01-05-08 01:23am
well i go to church every sunday and
participate in a lot of church activities
and consider myself part of the church so
how do you think what you just said makes
me feel? judged maybe? alienated? it's
cool though. just that i know a lot of
religious people who are exactly the
opposite of what you just said.
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homerx
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Posted: 01-05-08 01:54am
I'm sorry. You are wright.
So how do you feel about homosexuals? How
about Muslims? The Jewish? The Atheist?
You don't think any of them are doomed to
eternal Hell? Truly, the truth..please. I
go to church also so I am just curious. I
believe in God without doubt. And I
believe in a GOD without walls.
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kaerbear
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Posted: 01-05-08 06:19am
i asked a priest once, a friend of mine,
about my ancestors because they are native
and were not christians. he told me to
read these scriptures:
"Everyone that loveth is born of God, and
knoweth God."
"No one has seen God at any time; if we
love one another, God abides in us, and
His love is perfected in us.”
"whoever keeps His word, in him the love
of God has truly been perfected. By this
we know that we are in Him"
"'Come, you who are blessed by God take
your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for
you since the creation of the world. For I
was hungry and you gave me something to
eat, I was thirsty and you gave me
something to drink, I was a stranger and
you invited me in, I needed clothes and
you clothed me, I was sick and you looked
after me, I was in prison and you came to
visit me.'
"Then the righteous will answer him,
'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed
you, or thirsty and give you something to
drink? When did we see you a stranger and
invite you in, or needing clothes and
clothe you? When did we see you sick or in
prison and go to visit you?'
"Christ will reply, 'I tell you the
truth, whatever you did for one of the
least of these, you did for me.'
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Posted: 01-05-08 07:10am
There's a saying...I can't recall where
I've heard it but it goes:
"Jesus, save me from your followers!"
Most non-Christians are more contemptuous
of the followers than they are the
religion itself. After all, guns don't
fire themselves and cars don't run people
over without a driver behind the wheel.
The actions of the followers is what has
earned such contempt from others. The two
most hated religions in the world are also
the two most popular; Christianity and
Islam. The larger the community, the more
likely it will be to have outspoken, badly
behaved or crazed members.
Look at online gaming, for an example.
World of Warcraft has the most obnoxious
player community on record compared to
other games of its genre, but it also has
the largest population. It isn't that
World of Warcraft specifically promotes
that kind of behavior-it's just that it
has a larger following than games like
Vanguard or Everquest II right now, and
thus to a player of the latter mentioned
games the population of World of Warcraft
seems to have an inordinate amount of
bungholes.
So the impression that a non-Christian or
non-Muslim person gets when witnessing the
verbal harassment, terrorism, funeral
crashers, arrogant elitists, prejudice,
sexism and violence committed so often by
those associated with these big name
religions is that Christian and Muslim
faiths attract these kinds of people. It
can be difficult to keep the peaceful ones
in a different category from the loud
ones, because the peaceful ones tend to
leave people alone and thus aren't as
noticeable.
It's like George Carlin said: "Ever heard
someone say, 'Its the quiet ones you gotta
watch?" If you walk in a bar and one guy
is sitting there minding his own business
reading a book, but the other guy is
screaming 'I'M GONNA KILL THE NEXT
SON-OF-A-B**CH THAT WALKS IN
HERE'.................Who ya gonna
watch??? Because I'll bet you while
you're watching the 'quiet one', the
'noisy one' will effing KILL YOU!" (not an
exact quote due to forum censorship and an
imperfect memory )
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Everyday I read in the news about people
committing crimes and it's always people
that don't go to church, people that are
not christians at all. So if i were to ask
God to save me from his followers I also
have to ask him to save me from not his
followers.
If you don't live a life of love then you
are not christian even if you "label"
yourself as one.
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Posted: 01-05-08 10:37am
What about if you live a life of love and
you are a buddhist? (Many Buddhists
practice ahimsa which translates literally
into "do no harm", so my guess is they
aren't the ones out theere committing
crimes) I think the people who commit
crimes do so for one of two main reasons.
1. they are or have been cut off from
family, friends and have no positive
social network or 2. They do so out of
desperation and lack of positive modeling.
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Posted: 01-05-08 11:10am
When I think of the idea of heaven there
is one major flaw for me. Eternal
happiness and eternal relief. All the
good things heaven is suppose to be cannot
co-exist with the existence of hell (in my
mind). I am not able to believe I can be
happy and free in heaven, while others are
suffering eternally. People I loved,
friends, family, even just kind
strangers.
This thought nagged at me when I was
really trying to get myself to believe in
God. I couldn't be happy while others
suffered. How could anyone be happy
knowing some of those they cared about are
in a place of constant agony? I couldn't
prescribe to a religion where God handed
out eternal consequences, a religion that
seemed to be based around punishment and
damnation.
That is just a little thought I have as to
why some Christians are so concerned for
the souls of other. Some people are just
genuinely concerned for the happiness and
wellness of others.
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kaerbear
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Posted: 01-05-08 11:13am
but that was the question i asked,
basically. "what about people of
different religions?" and that was the
answer i was given. no one knows for sure
where any of us are going anyway. why not
concentrate on making a better world right
now and leave the afterlife to god? my
baby is being baptised soon and one of the
vows we take on her behalf until she can
make the choice for herself is to strive
for justice and peace among all people,
and respect the dignity of every human
being and to seek and serve Christ in all
persons, loving your neighbour as
yourself. i was speaking with my priest
and she said that the church (our church,
anyway) has moved more toward those
promises being the identity of the church
and that is a good thing because it widens
the circle of love and acceptance. so, if
a buddhist lives a life of love, serving
others and striving for peace and justice,
then they are living the word of god.
they may not be a Christian, but they are
living Christ's word, and he said so many
times that that is the important thing,
not the legalities or the rituals.
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Posted: 01-05-08 11:40am
nightangel73
wrote:
Everyday I read in the news
about people committing crimes and it's
always people that don't go to church,
people that are not christians at all. So
if i were to ask God to save me from his
followers I also have to ask him to save
me from not his followers.
If you don't live a life of love then you
are not christian even if you "label"
yourself as
one.
Pfft. I hear all the time of people who
are christian committing crimes. You never
hear on the news what their religion
happens to be so how do you know? Because
such a large population of america is
christian, it stands to logic that just
the same percentage of people who commit
crimes will happen to be christian.
Christianity does not prevent corruption
or crime.
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Follow Up to Nightangel's Comments... Posted: 01-05-08 12:01pm
Where I live, the news doesn't report if
someone who committed a crime followed a
church or not, unless it's another
priest/sexual abuse case or an archbishop
denying it.
Then there are cases where religion is
public knowledge but not mentioned in the
news like the good Christian leaders of
this Christian country committing acts of
torture, deceit, etc.
Quote:
tr>
Cheney indicated
that the Bush administration doesn't
regard water-boarding as torture and
allows the CIA to use it. "It's a
no-brainer for me," Cheney said at one
point in an
interview.
Waterboarding is
a form of torture that consists of
immobilizing a person on his or her back,
with the head inclined downward, and
pouring water over the face and into the
breathing passages.[1] Through forced
suffocation and inhalation of water, the
subject experiences the process of
drowning in a controlled environment and
is made to believe that death is
imminent.
And then the crimes against humanity
committed by public figures of religion,
such as the Pope, for his declarations
against homosexuals.
If people would just care about one
another. Religion for the powerless is
fine. Religion for the powerful corrupts.
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Posted: 01-05-08 13:04pm
kaerbear
wrote:
but that was the question i
asked, basically. "what about people of
different religions?" and that was the
answer i was given. no one knows for sure
where any of us are going anyway. why not
concentrate on making a better world right
now and leave the afterlife to god? my
baby is being baptised soon and one of the
vows we take on her behalf until she can
make the choice for herself is to strive
for justice and peace among all people,
and respect the dignity of every human
being and to seek and serve Christ in all
persons, loving your neighbour as
yourself. i was speaking with my priest
and she said that the church (our church,
anyway) has moved more toward those
promises being the identity of the church
and that is a good thing because it widens
the circle of love and acceptance. so, if
a buddhist lives a life of love, serving
others and striving for peace and justice,
then they are living the word of god.
they may not be a Christian, but they are
living Christ's word, and he said so many
times that that is the important thing,
not the legalities or the
rituals.
That really sounds quite lovely. I had
both of my children baptized in the
Lutheran church my dh grew up in and we
got married in by the same person who
married us. To me it was less about them
being a part of that particular church,
per se, but all of us promising to do our
best to seee to it that the children grew
up to be honest kind, helpful, good
people.
(funny tidbit, though-Geneva made this
horrible satanic hissing sound when he put
the holy water on her forehead. It was
pretty funny considering her mother is a
heathen! j/k)
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Re: Even If I Am Going to Hell.... Posted: 01-05-08 15:31pm
sillyakchick
wrote:
So if I am going to Hell for
my disbelief in a all knowing god, even if
I risk eternal fire in the depths of the
dark for my love of the same gender, even
if I am damned forever because of my
blasphemous, alcohol-imbibing, dancing to
rock music, hippie activities, why do
ultra religious people care what happens
to me after I die? I am seriously
wondering why my salvation is so important
to other people. Just today I had a
parking lot lecture by a complete stranger
because i have a "Goddess is alive and
magic is abound" bumper sticker onmy car
(along with gay equality, and other stuff
that's controversial, I guess) who told me
all about the repurcussions of my
"lifestyle" Why
is this so important to others? Would
people not just be happy to spend eternity
in my absence if I am such a vile
human?
I think there are three main mentalities
that abound amongst religious individuals.
There's the first group who are concerned
only with their own salvation. It's a
deeply personal thing for them, and
instead of preaching and judging, they try
to lead by example alone. I admire these
the most.
The second group are people who do not
want "God's world" tarnished with people
who promote/live 'sinful' lifestyles.
These lifestyles are tempting and could
very well corrupt others, thus
jeopardizing the salvation of others.
The third group are people who "love" us
(meaning those of us who don't subscribe
to their religious views) so much that
they want so badly for us to be saved. The
Phelps family, for example (in my opinion
are absolutely psychotic) say that they
love homosexuals more than anyone, because
it is their job to save them.... Even
though God hates them, the Phelps still
love them by picketing funerals of
homosexuals, and keeping track of how long
select homosexuals have been burning in
hell. In my opinion, that's a pretty
warped view of love, but who am I to
judge?
Anyways, that's my two cents.
Oh, and Darkmoon, I don't know you, but I
quite enjoy your opinion.
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Posted: 01-05-08 20:20pm
Darkmoon and Marvel are both saying what I
couldn't find the words to say. I
appreciate it. Judge not,people...I don't
want you judging me and I will do my best
not to judge you but please let me have my
freedom to not choose your God and give me
the right to say so without retribution of
Hell or being tied to the cross...or
dragged behind a pick up or tied to a
fence like a scarecrow. A zealot is a
zealot.