Whatever guy that you are with next will have to accept that Mark is part of your past. If a new guy isn't cool with that then he shouldn't be seeing your pelvis.

I think that it is an awesome idea.

I completely agree. I think it's a beautiful memorial. And like she said, if a guy in the future has a problem with it, he isn't the right guy for you.

That's a great idea, I say go for it 100%.

I went through something similar. (Obviously on a much lesser scale) I wanted to get angle wings on my lower back that said forever young under them. It was in memory of a boyfriend that died. My mom was going to let me (I was 15) But I soon met Mike and he threw a fit. (It was/still is the only thing we have ever had a huge argument over) I figured I would wait and if we broke up, I would get it then. We're married now, so I probably won't be getting the tattoo. But, if I hadn't told him who it was for, he never would have thought anything of it.

Again, my situation is on a much smaller scale. And I don't think anyone could stop me if I wanted to do something similar in Mike's honor.

I say, go for it! If the next guy doesn't like it, oh well.

I was hoping to get it done today because i'm going on a trip to hawaii at the end of the month but I'm not finding the right pic so I'm thinking I should wait...

I agree with the other girls. It shouldn't matter what future men think, they will just have to accept it.

i think it's a great idea

DO IT!

i think its a great idea but maybe somewhere other than your pelvis. i would want ppl to see it like a shoulder since it means so much

i would think thats would be a perfect idea and i think its a beautiful thing as well

What a wonderful idea. The guy you are supposed to be with in the future will not have a problem with that at all. I believe that he will want to know a little about Mark as Mark is what helped make "you" you...if that makes sense. He will be secure enough in the relationship to not think of it as strange or feel threatened.

I think its a great idea ...im going too get one done as well ...my daughters dad passed away 13 years ago and my current boyfriend of 3 years his girlfriend passed away bout 5 years ago from a lung condition .....we are both getting memorial tatts done

that sounds like a lovely