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Q: Vibrators sex toys
asked by: dot369 on January 4th, 2008
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My boyfriend and I think that it would be fun to play with a vibrator and other sex toys. I've never bought anything like this before, so I'm a little lost. What are some good vibrators? How about some good toys and what they do?

And my boyfriend is relatively small, so I don't know if I want to get anything too big. I'm afraid that I'll start liking a bigger vibrator more compared to the real thing.

Anyway - yes, I want a vibrator/toys. And I've always wanted to try something kinda kinky.

But I'm hoping to not spending a whole lot of money - maybe $20-$30.

...help? Thanks!
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curiouslyanonymous
replied on January 4th, 2008
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Honestly? Ask the people in the adult stores. Chances are they know what they're talking about. Silver bullet and the rabbit, I've heard, are highly recommended vibrators.
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dot369
replied on January 4th, 2008
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There is an adult store near me, but to be perfectly honest, the people working there have always seemed really seedy to me (not trying to make generalities, but these are just the people who work at the one in my town). I just don't feel comfortable asking them.
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n2r7moopad
replied on January 4th, 2008
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I would suggest a g-spot toy. Go to adam and eve and they have them on there, is is slim and on the end there is like a bulb that curves so when it is in you it hits the spot Smile
The silver bullets are nice too, they are great to use while he is inside and you can put them on the clit.
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Georgia59
replied on January 7th, 2008
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One comment-

you will probably grow to like your vibrator more than your man lol- that's why they exist.

If you're concerned about his feelings, teach him how to use it, make it fun for both of you.
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sillysallie1990
replied on January 8th, 2008
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personally i like the little ones where you just use them on you clit it feels amazing and you can use them while having sex with your man
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EmilyS
replied on January 10th, 2008
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RebelCats wrote:
EmilyS wrote:
I think you should try something where the two of you will have fun with.
For beginners it's quite nice to use a penis ring.

This one even vibrates
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It's cheap and if you like it, you can still buy something more expensive


Since you brought those up. Me and the hubs are talking about trying on. I looked into those Trojan ones that come with a condom or 2. But after reading the description on it it says it only last for like 20 mins. Are all of them a one use type thing or do they last longer.


The ones you are talking about are just used once, but the ones I was talking about, you can change the battery's easily, Those are small watch batteries. yes
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Georgia59
replied on January 10th, 2008
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They sell penis rings that vibrate, and last forever. (I think that's what Emily was talking about)

And you could use them with condoms, if you want.

But any regular old vibrator, for 20 or 30 dollars is a good start to learn what you like.
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sillysallie1990
replied on January 10th, 2008
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i paid ten bucks for mine but it eats batteries...
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Rosie H
replied on January 10th, 2008
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the condoms that come with the vibrator lasts maybe to sex sessions.
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Georgia59
replied on January 11th, 2008
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Hey guys no posting links to sites that sell things!! Lol... you can suggest it, but no links... we get too much spam around here!

Sorry Embarassed

(You can look at the terms of service or pm me if you're wondering which links are allowed and which aren't)
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Lauren_Jay15
replied on January 11th, 2008
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Ann summers is a good place to look, and the rampant rabbits good...apparently lol
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Georgia59
replied on January 11th, 2008
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I have to admit that I'm not too fond of talking to people in adult stores, maybe that's hypocritical I don't know.

Last time I was in one (with my hubby) this guy followed me around, like snooping around just behind me and peeking at what I was looking at over my shoulder, breathing kinda funny... I was like, we gotta get out of here.... 8O

But generally my experience in the stores has been fine and I'm sure the people who work there are great people
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EmilyS
replied on January 12th, 2008
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Maybe just wanted to help you or something.
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PenguinsRus
replied on January 12th, 2008
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You can always purchase one from an online sex shop if you are uncomfortable going into the store. A lot of them will mail them in an unmarked plain brown package if you are worried about other people seeing it, and you can find reviews that people write about certain toys on a lot of sites too.
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Georgia59
replied on January 14th, 2008
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EmilyS wrote:
Maybe just wanted to help you or something.


The creepy guy didn't work there, he was just creepy. Wink And he followed me around for about a half hour. (My hubby and I are indecisive)

I mean, I'll still shop there. Just a weird experience.
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