Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 14 Location: new jersey
Depressed About Boyfriend & Breaking Up Posted: 01-04-08 08:55am
I am so depressed this is like the worst
night/day ever. My boyfriend of 11 months
broke up with me. We got in this huge
argument because i had a little bit of an
attitude when he asked me to do something
so we went back to his house and he ate
and then ignored me the entire time i was
there i had to leave by 4 for work so i
did. I was crying my eyes out to him and
all he could say was get off of me, dont
touch me, i dont care. So it made me cry
even more. We had such a good day earlier
in the day but once we got home in all
went downhill. He got me a promise ring
for my birthday and for his birthday i got
him xbox 360 and video games to go along
with it. So i left his house at 4 crying
my eyes out and i said find if you dont
want to talk to me im going to take you
glasses and your 2 xbox controllers so you
cant play. So i left with his glasses and
his controllers. I sat in my car to see if
he would run out after me and say that he
was sorry and all. But no he knocks on my
car window and asks for his glasses. So i
said how does it feel to want? I go you
want your glasses as bad as i want you to
talk to me. He said nothing he walked in
the house said f*** you and gave me the
finger. It made me cry even more. So i sat
in the driveway for a good 10 minutes to
see if he was going to come back out and
get them but he never did. As soon as i
pulled out of the driveway he called me. I
didnt answer i was crying to my friend on
the phone because i was so upset. So i got
to work and as im on the phone i recieve
text mesages from him. Saying like you can
go f*** yourself now because you went too
far and now i want my rings back and then
you can say bye to me then because we are
over and he texted me..hope your having
fun with my glases b***h. Then it was time
for me to start work so i did as soon as i
got there i acted sick so i could leave
and go home i was able to leave an hour
later. So i got in my car and cried and
thought about things. Came home and he
wasnt at his house he went out. I texted
all of his friends and none of them were
with him but i think one of them was
lying. So i dont know what to do. And he
was like ill have your xbox games and xbox
ready for you tomorrow morning and i want
my rings.( he got me one for christmas
too)
what im trying to say is that i love him
so much, and its hard to let him go. I
just cant let him go like that. He wont
even talk to me. We broke up once before
and he was like i realized i would be
nothing without you. So like i dont know
what to do. I want to be his girl.
He needs to appreciate the things i do for
him. He comes from a poor family he has no
job nothing i get him things so he has
things he gets me stuff only on holidays i
bought him 4 seasons of rescue me, ipod
alarm clock, a carhartt jacket, xbox 360,
a cooler pack for xbox 360, about 4 xbox
games, movies and a lot of other stuff. I
go out of my way for him. And in return i
get this. I love him to death and i need
help. Someone cheer me up. Give me advice.
Something. Anything will help. And do you
think it was mean i took his glasses on
him?\
help me please.
Im so depressed
you have no idea
i just want to die
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marvel
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Joined: 09 Sep 2007 Posts: 1099 Location: Toronto, Ontario (but only a private message away)
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Posted: 01-04-08 16:47pm
believe it or not, life does go on. I'm a
firm believer that you have to take what
happens to you and learn from it so you'll
be wiser for the next time. In addition to
being wiser, you'll be stronger and more
able to deal with what's handed to you.
Look at this as an opportunity to learn
and become stronger... with a little bit
of optimism. It can change your whole
outlook on things. This boy isn't worth it
if he makes you cry. There IS another one
out there who all of this is completely
worth.
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taylor618
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2008 Posts: 29 Location: ,
Posted: 01-05-08 01:01am
he will come around,truusst me.if its been
11 months it wont just end like this,ive
been with my boyfriend for 21 months,and
we do this alot.dont let it get to
you.everything will be alright.i know
exactly how youre feeling
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 01-06-08 13:10pm
how old are you first off?
relationships come and go in life, thats a
part of it
it hurts and it sucks but it happens. you
dont want to die over t. your just in
shock. but dont say you want to die
because you dont
your life will go on
it most definately will.
dont stalk him and dont beg for him to
come back. that will make this even worse
just let it go until the time is right to
try and fix things. if that time doesnt
come then its not meant to be
