Well I can tell you honestly, he probably knows that you are a virgin by your actions. If he has some experience then he'll know I'm almost 100% sure.
a)You are not going to know what to do and how to do things properly, what if he wants to change a position, let's say from the side, or from the back.
b)Girls are usually extremely shy, they are very afraid to take their clothing off
c)You probably will not enjoy the first time, it could be seen by the guy.

There are more signs I just gave you the most common. Don't be shy that you are a virgin, I lost mine when I was 21, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

what about actual physical signs though? Lets say a woman is confident, not shy, and seems to enjoy it.

I'm pretty sexually experienced, I've just never had actual penetration. I'm definitley not shy in bed....so I'm wondering more about what it feels like for the guy when he's with a virgin vs. a woman who isnt. Is there any way to physically tell?

sorry, i know you want a guys opinion, but...you might want to tell him anyway, just because it can hurt and he may go a little more gently at first. otherwise he may end up hurting your down there area. trust me, when it gets hurt, it doesn't go away quick!

Well, I myself haven't ha sex with a virgin before, but I'm almost positive virgins tend to be tighter and wetter, but that may hold true for second or third timers as well.

That's not true at all.

Grr...

Girls are tighter if they're not in the mood or they're not turned on, or nervous. Are they are "wetter" if they are more turned on, or some women just get wetter than others.

Sex does not physically change a woman's vagina AT ALL

unless she had an intact hymen, which is pretty rare.

when my brother put me upon our horse without a saddle. I remember that when I barely survived by holding onto the reigns of the horse and her hair that I barely made it back to the house. There was blood on my panties. I was seven or eight years old.

First time for me was very pleasurable. Just is up to the guy to make you get to the point that you want to have sex.

Oh I'm sorry! I didn't mean to misguide anyone, Iv'e been under that impression. Thank you for correcting me though, I wouldn't know otherwise .

No, that's fine. Sorry to jump on you

I just get upset because it's a common misconception and it is bad for women. Just like the idea that if a girl doesn't have a hymen, she isn't a virgin.

Will the guy just know? Maybe

Should you let him know? Yes

Telling him will not only allow him to make it a better experience for you, but it will show honesty in the relationship... and that can never be replaced.

I honestly think you should tell your boyfriend! He wont try and ruffle you up as much, and you most likely will get hurt if he trys. There will be blood if he accurately pops the cheery, there is a VERY small chance he wont, but seeing blood might worry him, confuse him, or gross him out (cause he was not expecting it). If you tell him, he will be prepared, not get at worried if he sees blood, make sure your not being put in situations your body cant handle. Also having sex with a virgin can be extreamly hot, knowing that you to love each other and want to have that sexual love connection will just simply better your relationship. He will most likely end up hurting you, I really think you should tell him. Plus he needs to know some time.

also from what your saying, he probably knows, unless you have convinced him otherwise(like told him you have had sex before).

sigh