Painful ejaculation and penis head

Hi there

This is a very personal issue that has worried me for some time. I%u2019m 19 years old, and really ever since I began masturbating, which has probably been for around 5 years, it hurts for me to build up and ejaculate. The penis head is very sensitive anyway. The pain seems to originate from inside my anus and there is discomfort and heat. It is possible for me to ejaculate, but I can%u2019t continue to stroke due to the pain. I don%u2019t really want to touch the head of the penis afterwards due to the discomfort.

There are no other problems though, no pain while urinating or anything like that. Im terrified to go to the doctor due to the fact I don%u2019t want a serious operation. But at the same time its becoming a major issues as its really putting me off sex, which isn%u2019t easy when your in a relationship.

I%u2019m not sure whether it is my technique, I realised that I actually %u201Csqueeze%u201D something inside automatically while I masturbate, or at least the inside of my anus (which could be the prostate). When I try and stop this the pain builds up even more.

I%u2019m not sure whether it is because the head of my penis is unusually sensitive. I don%u2019t really think I%u2019ve ever had an orgasm, instead just this discomfort, and when it actually come to ejaculation once some has come out I have to stop stroking and tend to %u201Cpush%u201D it out from the inside %u2013 as it hurts to much to continue. I tend to masturbate daily (which may seem unusual given the circumstances) I%u2019ve stopped for a week or so, but the only thing that seems to happen is that I seem to be able to ejaculate more. Maybe I%u2019ve overused it. And need prolonged rest.

I%u2019m sorry that there%u2019s no easy way to put this problem, and I%u2019m sure that your advice will be to see a doctor, which probably is the best thing to do, but I%u2019m still scared to.

Eddie