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Q: PE at 14 ?
asked by: dan835 on January 2nd, 2008
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Hi,

I'm 14 and my penis is up to 16cm (and as low as 9), and my testicles look a normal size comparatively.

I'm addicted to masturbating and I do it every night before bed, if I don't I can't sleep and lie awake for hours, afew hours past midnight.

When I masturbate It takes about 5 minutes to have the first orgasm (or longer if I'm not really turned on), which usually lasts 10 seconds or so, then the next orgasm is even shorter (usualy I have 2-4).

the orgasms just feel unsatisfying allot of the time

Do I ejaculate prematurely or have my sexual organs not finished growing, or do I just masturbate too often?
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Georgia59
replied on January 2nd, 2008
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None of the above! You are young, so the masturbation is normal. Five minutes to orgasm during masturbation is normal, and most men aren't able to acheive another orgasm-you only can because of your age, and it will likely be shorter and weaker.

You're fine- you're young.
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minuteman
replied on January 4th, 2008
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dan835, i think you might be too young to understand this but the current definition of premature ejaculation is not a certain amount of minutes or seconds. it is very subjective and depends on you and your girlfriend.

someone that ejaculates in 2 minutes but is comfortable with that and has a girlfriend that doesn't want to have intercourse for longer than 2 minutes is not a premature ejaculator.

but someone who ejaculates in 90 minutes and has a girlfriend who doesn't feel satisfied unless she has intercourse for 91 minutes is, by definition, a premature ejaculator.

premature ejaculation is a frustrating and terrible problem for most men.

so to answer your question, you are not a premature ejaculator, you are a young boy.
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bongi
replied on January 6th, 2008
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Yes you are very young but I'm gonna give you some advice that might help. Instead of having 2-4 orgasms each night you should only have one, or maybe two if you still feel like it afterwards. Try to change the way you masturbate and make it one long session instead of several. Start off as you normally do, but when you start to feel that you are about to come you should try to relax and take deep breaths and masturbate slower or stop masturbating for a few seconds until it feels like the orgasms is further away. Then you can start to masturbate again and repeat this step a few times until you feel that you really want to have an orgasms and then you go all the way. The orgasm will feel more satisfying if you do it like this instead of doing one quick race. At least thats the way it works for me! It may take some practise but I'm sure you'll get the hang of it pretty fast.
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52yuanma
replied on January 7th, 2008
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you are too young.
you are fine
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perkins2505
replied on January 19th, 2008
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Just have fun.
One of the joys of masturbation is you can do it as often as you want, as fast or as slow as you want, and thinking about what ever you want. How fast you finish or how many times you do it will change as you get older, but there's no right or wrong. Do what you enjoy.
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perkins2505
replied on January 19th, 2008
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Just have fun.
One of the joys of masturbation is you can do it as often as you want, as fast or as slow as you want, and thinking about what ever you want. How fast you finish or how many times you do it will change as you get older, but there's no right or wrong. Do what you enjoy.
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perkins2505
replied on January 19th, 2008
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Just have fun.
One of the joys of masturbation is you can do it as often as you want, as fast or as slow as you want, and thinking about what ever you want. How fast you finish or how many times you do it will change as you get older, but there's no right or wrong. Do what you enjoy.
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june12
replied on February 18th, 2008
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pls stop masturbation
pls stop masturbation,
it will ruin your future sex life
your mental health will go down
you will age physically faster
you will develop premature ejaculation
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lightheartlni2008
replied on February 27th, 2008
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damn it dan
Having sex is to have human reproduction, the organs are situated and function for that purpose, modern days' hype and unwarranted errotic imaginations seeded through all type of media unnecessarily induce the mind to go for a vent. just releasing the semen is not enjoyment, it is like licking a water bottle without water. there should be a loving partner with whom one is going to build a family, and the love shall also be permanent. and should always be satisfied to know the one which receiving the fluid to build generations. the abundance of the semen is only to chose the best possible and capable winner from the lot. no one loves a big penis but a beautiful heart. marriages are not done after measuring the length and duration of erection and unit measurement of the semen. and no marriage bodys declare them also.

now the medical part : when a person is aroused the circulatory system pumps more blood to the reproductive system and the other systems are deprived of the nutrients for some time. guyton's physiology book says the orgasm feeling is going into an unknown destination. the unused sperm is absorbed into the body system or sometimes nocturnally emitted. One Reders Digest article claimed the tissues of penis are the same tissues of the heart. too much of an exertion to any body systel will definitely be harmed in a longer run. breathing is good for health but no one is continuously panting for hours and measures breathing cotient everyday. no one is measuring the kidney size and urine quantity everyday. body will function normally as it was made for the purpose.

the indulgence for overt sex practices leave only a scar in the mind which over the periods of life will lead to psychological disturbances. what is the purpose of being homo sexual. modern science only finds false answers to the gullible minds. of course science is for a purpose so as every aspect of life has a purpose if anything is done without it there is no need to live and fill the world with dunks.

What we can call it to advise a boy in his formative age who measures his organ and discusses about ejaculation and there are people advising him how to do it ?

Too much of Science should bring too much of sense and sensibility
but it has only developed human minds to pamper the knowledge of sensousness

So pl Dan 835 now you may feel like having gratification, but your penis is designed and getting erected to give you an offspring and by the way giving a pleasurable satisfaction to your beloved ... surely not to satisfy yr palm.
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lord4dam
replied on January 5th, 2009
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lightheartlni2008, thanks for the advise Smile
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