I'm 14 and my penis is up to 16cm (and as
low as 9), and my testicles look a normal
size comparatively.
I'm addicted to masturbating and I do it
every night before bed, if I don't I can't
sleep and lie awake for hours, afew hours
past midnight.
When I masturbate It takes about 5 minutes
to have the first orgasm (or longer if I'm
not really turned on), which usually lasts
10 seconds or so, then the next orgasm is
even shorter (usualy I have 2-4).
the orgasms just feel unsatisfying allot
of the time
Do I ejaculate prematurely or have my
sexual organs not finished growing, or do
I just masturbate too often?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 01-02-08 17:33pm
None of the above! You are young, so the
masturbation is normal. Five minutes to
orgasm during masturbation is normal, and
most men aren't able to acheive another
orgasm-you only can because of your age,
and it will likely be shorter and weaker.
You're fine- you're young.
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minuteman
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Joined: 30 Dec 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 01-04-08 00:31am
dan835, i think you might be too young to
understand this but the current definition
of premature ejaculation is not a certain
amount of minutes or seconds. it is very
subjective and depends on you and your
girlfriend.
someone that ejaculates in 2 minutes but
is comfortable with that and has a
girlfriend that doesn't want to have
intercourse for longer than 2 minutes is
not a premature ejaculator.
but someone who ejaculates in 90 minutes
and has a girlfriend who doesn't feel
satisfied unless she has intercourse for
91 minutes is, by definition, a premature
ejaculator.
premature ejaculation is a frustrating and
terrible problem for most men.
so to answer your question, you are not a
premature ejaculator, you are a young boy.
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bongi
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Posted: 01-06-08 18:53pm
Yes you are very young but I'm gonna give
you some advice that might help. Instead
of having 2-4 orgasms each night you
should only have one, or maybe two if you
still feel like it afterwards. Try to
change the way you masturbate and make it
one long session instead of several. Start
off as you normally do, but when you start
to feel that you are about to come you
should try to relax and take deep breaths
and masturbate slower or stop masturbating
for a few seconds until it feels like the
orgasms is further away. Then you can
start to masturbate again and repeat this
step a few times until you feel that you
really want to have an orgasms and then
you go all the way. The orgasm will feel
more satisfying if you do it like this
instead of doing one quick race. At least
thats the way it works for me! It may take
some practise but I'm sure you'll get the
hang of it pretty fast.
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52yuanma
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Posted: 01-07-08 04:26am
you are too young.
you are fine
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perkins2505
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Joined: 25 Jun 2007 Posts: 13 Location: Canada
Just have fun. Posted: 01-19-08 11:01am
One of the joys of masturbation is you can
do it as often as you want, as fast or as
slow as you want, and thinking about what
ever you want. How fast you finish or how
many times you do it will change as you
get older, but there's no right or wrong.
Do what you enjoy.
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perkins2505
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2007 Posts: 13 Location: Canada
Just have fun. Posted: 01-19-08 11:01am
One of the joys of masturbation is you can
do it as often as you want, as fast or as
slow as you want, and thinking about what
ever you want. How fast you finish or how
many times you do it will change as you
get older, but there's no right or wrong.
Do what you enjoy.
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perkins2505
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2007 Posts: 13 Location: Canada
Just have fun. Posted: 01-19-08 11:01am
One of the joys of masturbation is you can
do it as often as you want, as fast or as
slow as you want, and thinking about what
ever you want. How fast you finish or how
many times you do it will change as you
get older, but there's no right or wrong.
Do what you enjoy.
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june12
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Joined: 18 Feb 2008 Posts: 3
pls stop masturbation Posted: 02-18-08 05:11am
pls stop masturbation,
it will ruin your future sex life
your mental health will go down
you will age physically faster
you will develop premature ejaculation
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lightheartlni2008
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Joined: 27 Feb 2008 Posts: 7
damn it dan Posted: 02-27-08 01:31am
Having sex is to have human reproduction,
the organs are situated and function for
that purpose, modern days' hype and
unwarranted errotic imaginations seeded
through all type of media unnecessarily
induce the mind to go for a vent. just
releasing the semen is not enjoyment, it
is like licking a water bottle without
water. there should be a loving partner
with whom one is going to build a family,
and the love shall also be permanent. and
should always be satisfied to know the one
which receiving the fluid to build
generations. the abundance of the semen is
only to chose the best possible and
capable winner from the lot. no one loves
a big penis but a beautiful heart.
marriages are not done after measuring the
length and duration of erection and unit
measurement of the semen. and no marriage
bodys declare them also.
now the medical part : when a person is
aroused the circulatory system pumps more
blood to the reproductive system and the
other systems are deprived of the
nutrients for some time. guyton's
physiology book says the orgasm feeling is
going into an unknown destination. the
unused sperm is absorbed into the body
system or sometimes nocturnally emitted.
One Reders Digest article claimed the
tissues of penis are the same tissues of
the heart. too much of an exertion to any
body systel will definitely be harmed in a
longer run. breathing is good for health
but no one is continuously panting for
hours and measures breathing cotient
everyday. no one is measuring the kidney
size and urine quantity everyday. body
will function normally as it was made for
the purpose.
the indulgence for overt sex practices
leave only a scar in the mind which over
the periods of life will lead to
psychological disturbances. what is the
purpose of being homo sexual. modern
science only finds false answers to the
gullible minds. of course science is for a
purpose so as every aspect of life has a
purpose if anything is done without it
there is no need to live and fill the
world with dunks.
What we can call it to advise a boy in
his formative age who measures his organ
and discusses about ejaculation and there
are people advising him how to do it ?
Too much of Science should bring too much
of sense and sensibility
but it has only developed human minds to
pamper the knowledge of sensousness
So pl Dan 835 now you may feel like having
gratification, but your penis is designed
and getting erected to give you an
offspring and by the way giving a
pleasurable satisfaction to your beloved
... surely not to satisfy yr palm.
