That is a horrible idea!!! Why would you try to trick someone into having an unwanted child?!?!?!
That is extremely immature.
If he doesn't want any more kids at all, you need to find someone who can make you happy in that sense.
I highly doubt you are mentally prepared to have a child if you are willing to basically steal sperm.

I agree with Marianne!

That would be a terrible thing to do to a guy, especially because it not only extends to him being a father, but he would have to be financially responsible as well for the child.

It does really sound like you need help....you should visit a therapist, and forget this idea of having children. There is no way that you can be a good mother if you aren't mature and "grown-up" enough yourself.

Seriously...talk to a psychotherapist.

omg ur just like me!
i have the same problem 2
i tried taking the sperm from the condom and putting it in me
but that didnt work
idk if it was me or the sperm that didnt work

ive tried it 2 times already.
im soo desperate to get pregnant 2
well if u have another idea let me know
=]

morena this is an old post and not only that, why would you do such a thing??? How old are you??? You must be pretty immature to want to do such a horrible thing! Seriously think about how your acting! IMMATURE!!!!

i can not believe wth i just read like honestly why would you think that would work i want to have a child badly but i have a man im in love with who also wants a child as badly as i do but i wudd neverrrrrrrrrrrr steal his sperm when he didnt want it. i agree with everyone else this is a very immature thing not only immature but pyscoish i mean go to a sperm bank where its actually allowed like come on already talk to a professional and seek help before you try to have a child cause your obviously so obsessed with having one you won't know what to do if you actually had one.

ok...me and my boyfren alwasy use condoms but about 2 weeks ago before he put on the condom his precum was all over his stomache and i was on top of him ...could this have gotten me pregnant?

If you really want to get pregnant and your guy won't do it for you, I'd be willing to. I'll get you pregnant. I'm clean 24 extremely virile and have pics. E-mail me if you're interested. My E-mail is my posting username at yahoo.

This post is very old and to anyone considering a helping man as a donor you would both need to go through the right channels so you could both be tested and you know its safe to have a baby together

honestly i know how you feel my ex boy friend aka baby's daddy didn't want any more kids he had already had a little girl but i wanted to have a baby anyway. So i stold the sperm every time and finally after 6months of trying i got pregnant. i was happy ass hell trust me i even cried, and the only reason why i did it is because i thought once i was already pregnant he was gonna wanna keep the baby and unfortunately to me he still didn't want it he made me think he did. and when he told me he was gonna take me to get prenatal care he was really taking me to get an abortion and since i didn't get the abortion he left me and till this day i don't know where he is or where he lives. listen i learned the hard way don't do anything wait to find someone who wants what you want. a baby wont help you keep a man specially if he doesn't want one . your only lookin' to scare him away trust me don't do it i seriously thought that because he loved me and we were already together 6 years he wouldn't leave. well he did he didn't even hesitate he left. don't do it.

As someone who has been tricked and is a victim to this kind of ploy I would like to add my thoughts to the question.
About 17 years ago I had a friend who wanted to engage in "no strings attached" sex - you know a sex buddy.
She told me she was on the pill and I wore a condom, secretly she wanted to get pregnant (lied about being on the pill) and stole the condom.
Well, she got pregnant, then she denied it was my child and that she was having unprotected sex with someone else.
So I left her. Then about 6 years later I am attending a trade school and I get a child support summons.
I only saw this child once in my life, I thought about going for some type of custody, but she threatened me with social workers and all sorts of barriers that I could not afford to go through.
It was like if I tried to see the child I was going to be reported to the police.
She even went so far to say that we were living common-law when we weren't.
So I moved on.
Then came the demands for ever-increasing child support through a lawyer and I still could not see the child. Yes, this liar really helped to ruin my life. Yes, it took two to tango but why should I and this child suffer.
I have never ever told the child about what this woman did as I did not want to destroy his life.
And I have only saw him once for 30 minutes when he was 5 years old.
Now I am hungry, I have very little money for my disabled wife and our daughter to live on. And there is nothing I can do until this child is 25 years of age - I have to pay for his education while my daughter has to go out and work for hers.
This woman was on welfare when I met her and she is still on welfare nothing changed other than her lifestyle has been financed by me. She has had free daycare so she can run around and be with her friends, she goes out for coffee, gambles and I have never seen this child with her ever.
I am now the bad guy in all of this and quite truthfully the only way out for me would be to just shoot myself as their is no estate left. I'll be honest and tell you that I would do it if it would not break my legitimate daughter's heart.
About the person calling someone their "baby's daddy" I would say that this is incorrect. You committed theft by taking his sperm without his permission and maybe even a sexual assault by doing so as you did not have his permission.
I post this here so that people can see what they are doing and the effect it can and will have on others.
If you do not believe me write me and I will show you I am for real.

ROBERT

to tellingthetruth,
that is horrible story im sorry to hear that!
i think anyone who thinks it is ok to do that to some1 is totally screwd up in the head!

but i know a few people who get away with not paying child support im not 100% sure about how they do it, but i do know they dont do a tax return ever so that the money cant be given to the mum & child. you should look into it.

i hope u and your family will be ok!
and it is not fair that u should pay child support when u dont get 2 see the child! also have u done a dna test 2see if it is yours? if its not the nasty mole will owe u money.

best wishes 2 u tellingthetruth

I want someone to get me pregnant, too. Who can help?

Well In a sense I know how you feel, but that in itself does not give you the right to dictate deceitfully other people lives, listen, be brave and talk with your partner openly about how you feel, then if he still holding ground on the matter be braver and pack your bags and leave I am pretty sure there is someone out there for you that will share your ideas and love you.As for me I am desperate to get pregnant but the difference is my partner is too, we are in our early 40' and try everything, no results yet, right now we are opting for a more organic approach I don't know if it works but it makes sense and gives us hope.
As I said don't know if it works but I am really desperate.

omg that story was HORRIBLE i feel really sorry for u.....im also trying to get pregnant been trying for 3 months and getting very frustrated and upset when my period comes...me and my friend tried were talking and we decided we both wanted a baby so we tried for one together and it didnt work and he offered to try again but i dont wanna end up like the guy in the story above! any advice and before u ask if i love my friend i love him like i would a bf and he loves me but we dont wanna ruin our relationship by dating so advice plzzz NO JUDGEMENTS IM NOT TYING TO STEAL SPERM THATS PATHETIC