|Thank you for your comments. We talked again last night, and am not as concerned as I was before. We had a frank and honest conversation. I believe that things will be fine if we stay honest -- and we are going to speak with a counselor too.
The key for us is to learn to trust each other again, and it will take a while since he held on to a secret for so long (I also don't think that it's a big deal that he's attracted to men... I was hurt because I didn't know.) Hopefully, with counseling, we can rebuild our relationship.
|I stayed with my sister the night before she died and in between gssping for breath she told me that she was depressed,I ask her why, and my sister stated,"My husbands is homosexual,then she paused and said we have been married since I was a young girl- Her husband is a very nice gentleman to her ,wasn't very affection with her--They had two children that are grown now---I'm not sure how she found out about this, but it was very sad to see her die with sadness of 44 years --|