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Q: sex second time ?
asked by: imani on January 2nd, 2008
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Hey im new to this website and need some advice ok well im 14 and i recently had sex for the 1st time with my bf i wasnt really ready to do that i wanted to wait but my bf was ready to do it so it happen but now he wants to do it again and i didnt like it the first time and i dnt wanna do it anymore but since i already started should i continue? and after you have sex for the 1st time is it gonna feel diffrent after you keep doing it?
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young Girl
replied on January 2nd, 2008
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tell him NO???????
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Makenzie
replied on January 2nd, 2008
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you should tell him how you feel about it.
Just remember protection, plus if you dont want to dont let him pressure you.
you have to be strong. im 14 and i have had sex so just use proection or you will be in my problem right now.
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stickyicky
replied on January 2nd, 2008
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you shouldn't continue just b/c you started... mostly since you did not like it. if you don't think you were ready for it then, you wouldn't be ready for it now, and chances are ... that is the reason you didn't like it, so it wouldn't feel any different the second time around. don't let any guy pressure you into doing anything. =]
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Rosie H
replied on January 2nd, 2008
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sex will feel better after your first time. But you do not sound like you are ready to have sex. So just tell him the truth, there is no reason why he should be pressuring you. If he truly cares for you he will wait for you until you are ready. If he doesnt and keeps pressuring you then he doesnt deserve the gift you have given him. Sex is a huge responsibility, please dont take it lightly.

Also try and get on birth control if you do decide to have sex. You can go to your parents or go to planned parenthood for birth control and most definately condoms.
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JoselynnMariana
replied on January 2nd, 2008
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dont let him pressure you he might say "well if you wont let me its over" let it be over he only wants you because he thinks your a dumb 14 year old that is gonna give it up anytime he wants.. SEX IS A BIG RESPONSIBILITY BECAUSE IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU GOTTA BE READY TO BE A PARENT YOU NEVER IF THAT CONDOM MIGHT BREAK THEN YOUR SCREWED MOST GIRLS ARENT LUCKY THE FIRST TIME AN THEY GET PREGNANT BUT ITS YOUR DECISION TO GO ON WITH THE PREGNANCY IF YOU EVER GET PREGNANT TRY TO GET ON BIRTH CONTROL IF YOUR PARENTS DONT KNOW THEN GO TO THE CLOSEST HEALTH DEPARTMENT AND ASK FOR A TEEN CHECK UP THEY WONT CALL YOUR PARENTS.....ALL IT TAKES IS THE FIRST TIME TO GET PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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imani
replied on January 2nd, 2008
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Thanks everyone for the advice, it really helps im gonna tell him the way i feel and hopes he dosnt be mad at me over it. I dont think he will break up with just because of that or atleast i hope not.
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n2r7moopad
replied on January 4th, 2008
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who cares if he breaks up with you hun.....that shows that he is NOT the one for you. The RIGHT guy will be willing to stay with you regardless of if you give him some or not.
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umbrellas
replied on January 4th, 2008
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Just because you did once, doesn't mean you have to ever ... and I mean ever ... again until you are 100% ready. If your boyfriend breaks up with you because you won't have sex with him, count it a blessing that he is gone from your life. You have so much more to offer than just sex. The right guy will wait on you -- even if you choose to wait until marriage.

GOOD LUCK and do not do anything you are uncomfortable with.
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Georgia59
replied on January 5th, 2008
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You never owe somebody sex- you can ALWAYS say no!!
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