This is a touchy topic for me because I
have a hard time talking about this to
people. Especially people I don't know. So
i've decided to wait till i'm older to
have sex, but I'm not a prude. alright so
I was with my boyfriend and he was
fingering my ass and this was the first
time I've ever had this done and it hurt
so bad...so he kept going and i
farted..not loud. He didn't seem to really
care. Oh my gosh I can't get it out of my
head I was so so embarrsed I couldn't say
a word. I just need to know is this normal
and if it was jus air or something. Please
help me out!!! I also want to know is he
like disguisted with me and I don't think
I can comfort him because what if he
didn't even notice? Please please help me
this is killing me
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jaynemae
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2007 Posts: 51 Location: Washington, USA
Posted: 01-02-08 01:25am
just try to ignore it. honestly he
probably didn't even notice. i don't do
anything anal, but i'm sure it's not
uncommon to fart while that is happening.
when anything penetrates the vagina or
anus a little bit of air will be pushed
in. it was probably just that removing
itself in an embarrassing manor. try to
just let it go.
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Rosie H
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Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 1160 Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
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Posted: 01-02-08 10:47am
If he didnt say or do anything while it
happened then it didnt bother him. Guys
understand how the body works and they are
more ok with farting and burping than us
women. Do not worry, its a natural thing.
Also him fingering you should not have
hurt. I suggest using some kind of
personal lubricant and please try to learn
how to relax your rectum. Take it slow.
This can be a very pleasurable thing for
both of you, so try and relax and dont
continune if you are in pain..
