How old is he?You?

Yes, it matters

He will be 25, and I am 22. If you dont mind me asking why does this matter.

I think it was because maybe she thought a kid was coming into this and asking. I know I wouldnt feel right advising a 15 yr old on sex. But anyways, I think you should go ahead and go for all the kinkyness you want. He is the shy type and you need to open him up. There are alot of sex shops and you can go and check eveything out from lotions to dildos to eatible condoms. Maybe lickable body paint. Or you can go for a vibrator and a dildo. You need to be spontanious and surprise him. Simple gets boring after a while. I havent done that yet with my husband but maybe soon I will. Good luck!

Go for the dildo! He will totally love it because you can use it in front of him, and he can use it on you as well. Or try a diiferent location..Or pop in a porno, and watch it with him....Mildly kinky, yet tasteful and fun!

Have fun!

The reason I want to know your ages is because men go through phases in their sex life. I am married to somone 12 years older than my self and and age makes a difference in thier inhibition. (or lackthereof) he is twenty five and you have been together for seven years. Sounds promising. What I mean to say is you most likely have a lot of trust in each other. Men won't try new kinky things if they believe you will blab to your friends. Start small and escalate with each success. Start with a french tickler for example, and if that works try fuzzy handcuffs. With men it's complicated. We are led to believe (falsley) that they love all that has to do with sex and are ready for anything. Not true. They have inhibitions too. You can't just walk into the bedroom with a saddle and expect him to be thrilled. They need coddling.