Please go to Sexual Health - Women's Forum and check out the Sticky: The Information Post from Kia.

It will pretty much give you what you need to know.

And, yes, pregnancy can occur from pre-ejaculation.

there's still time to get the morning after pill. hurry, go get it!

if you do not want a baby, do not have unprotected sex! ever!

how do you know there was no pre-cum? your penis was completely dry when you took it out and checked? was your girlfriend not at all moist (which would have left your penis feeling slightly wet or sticky)? if so, i feel bad for her. that had to be uncomfortable.

there wasnt any on my penis that i felt. She wasnt wet anymore for some reason. She was really wet when we first were doing it and then she started to dry.

do you think that shes going to get pregnant? and where can i get some pills?

I hate to scare you but it is very easy to get pregnant from pre-cum. I know that you said you checked, but more than likely some of it did get in her, and it only take one of those guys to fertilize and egg! First, y'all need to hurry and get the Plan B (morning after pill) which is supposedly good up to 72 hours. Alot of drugstores carry them in the pharmacy now so call around or call Planned Parenthood first thing in am. Second, y'all have got to use reliable protection AT ALL TIMES!!! Good luck!

lele25..........your basically scaring me but i dont think shes pregnant. She has very irregular periods. She had cum in her before from her ex who rubbed himself and his hand was wet and then fingered her. I would think that if that happened that she would be pregnant. She said that before her last 2 periods that she didnt have one for 2 1/2 months. I think that im all set and plus most pre cum doenst have semem in it. She might have already had her ovulation. She said that she her period is never the same. Sometimes it will last about 3-5 days, a whole week, or even 1-2 days. She said that her period is irregular that she doesnt even know when her next one is suppose to be. The days in between her last 2 cycles have been 28 days but she said that its been 2 1/2 months before than and then a month or so before then. She said that she doesnt know when her next one is going to happen. I doubt that she will be pregnant. She did say though that she did experience pain on the abdomen/cervix area at noon on thursday (Dec. 27th).

What does that mean? should i be really worried? whats the chance that shes pregnant? give me a ball park figure. Is it like a 1/10000 chance of her getting pregnant or something?

she also said that she bleed after i left her house. I didnt break her open. Her ex Bf fingered hard before and broke her open. Does this mean anything that she bled after we had sex? could it mean that shes started ovulation? what does it mean?

ohmygosh YES SHE CAN BE PREGNANT
she can
it doesnt matter if it hasnt happened before it could happen now
so if you DONT WANT KIDS the GO get the morning after pill NOW
stop wasteing time

um you could have scratched her?
or irritated her crevix causing it to bleed
ovulation has nothing to do with this

please educate your self on sex ok?

and


you cant possibly know if you had preejaculate or not
you dont KNOW when you precum
it just happens

and yes ALL pre ejac has semen in it

to The Girlfriend!

PLEASE.

please what?

As a primary means of contraception, withdrawal has several disadvantages. First, there's the pre-ejaculate fluid (pre-cum) on which withdrawal will have no effect since it's released well before you ejaculate. This fluid may contain sperm and, thus, it does present a risk of pregnancy

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1186.ht ml

so the fluid may conatin sperm in it which can lead to pregnancy
thosands of women get pregnant from precum and the withdrawl method

To the advise given above.

These women are here to give you good advise. If I were in your shoes, I would take their advise and realize they have something here to tell you.

Trust me on this one, a good friend thought pre-ejaculate would never make a child. Always thought the pull out method was a sure and safe way for birth control. It is not.

Good luck on your situation. Best to you both.

I told her that i would get the pill and she no and that if she got it that she wouldnt take it. What am i to do?

"Dear Confused...,

Yes, a woman can, though the chances are low. Sperm could be in pre-cum, but only after a recent ejaculation, after which some sperm may be left hanging around in the urethra. "Recent" means masturbating earlier and then having sex with a woman, or during the same sexual episode of the recent ejaculation. Urinating in between ejaculations flushes the urethra of stray sperm and makes the way clear for the sperm-less pre-ejaculate fluid. If sperm remains after a prior ejaculation, then it's possible that they can enter the vagina and make their way to meet an egg."

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0922.ht ml

Thats where i got this. I dont think shes going to be pregnant. I didnt ejaculate at all. So this means that theres a clear path for sperm-less pre-ejaculate fluid. I didnt ejaculate earlier. I pre-cam which is was sperm-less pre-ejaculate fluid. When i play with my self and test how far i can go before i cum i notice this and its always clear and not sticky. Im going to take a wild guess and say that this had no sperm or very minimal sperm. I also looked up the chance of a women getting pregnant from Pre-ejaculate who were in my situation and the percentage was .16%. Im really worrying over nothing. Thanks The Girlfriend for your information but i found all of this out before. I did my research. I just didnt know that if the first pre-ejaculation had no or minimal sperm in it. If i was too ejaculate, and not pee then i would be screwed. Because once someone was to pre-ejaculate after that there would be sperm left over and that would get in her and plus the passage way for the clear pre-ejaculate would be not be clean cuz of ejaculating before and not peeing. I think that im pretty sure that im fine on this one.

Im going to always wear a condom, clean up really good after sex even its protective sex, and get her some birth control pills. I cant get her any right now cuz im not 18. I'll be 18 in a few weeks. We aren't going to have sex i will guarantee that one. Im going to have sex for a long time. I dont want anything like this to happen again.

you can't get her any birth control pills no matter how old you are. she has to go to the gynecologist to get them herself.

seriously, get a clue before you start engaging in risky behavior. i hope for your sake that she's not pregnant.

did you read what i got from the internet? Theres very low chances that theres sperm in my pre-ejaculate. I didnt ejaculate before this. I ejaculated a day before we had sex but i peed and then took a shower afterwards. Before we had sex i didnt pre ejaculate cuz i felt of my penis and it wasnt wet. I then had sex with her until i felt ejaculate was going to come out. I could tell it was coming but not really soon cuz ive tested myself like this before. I pulled out and i felt the head of my penis and it was dry and had no precum on it. I then rubbed/stroked my penis and pre ejaculate came out. I rubbed/slightly wiped with my hand where it was coming from and then put it back in her slowly. We had sex about 5 minutes after that. After the 5 minutes we both decided to stop and grab a condom.

I don think shes pregnant.

In the article i read from the internet it said that the chances of her being pregnant are low. IT SAID THAT SPERM COULD ONLY BE IN PRE-AJACULATION BUT ONLY AFTER RECENT AJACULATION. THERE WOULD BE SPERM LEFT DANGLING FROM THE URETHRA. "recent" MEAN MASTURBATING EARLIER THEN NOT PEEING AND THEN HAVING SEX WITH A WOMEN OR DURING THE SAME SEXUAL EPISODE OF RECENT EJACULATION. URINATING IN BETWEEN TIME WILL GET RID OF THE SPERM FROM DANGLING THERE. I highly doubt that shes pregnant.

Did you happen to read what i got or did you not?