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bigballer155
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Precum Pregnancy?
Posted: 12-30-07 20:49pm
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Me and my girlfriend had sex last night.
It was both our first time and im worried
that shes going to be pregnant. We didnt
use a condom. We had sex for a few minutes
and felt as if i was going to cum but i
didnt. I pulled out, touched the head of
my penis where cum would come out of and
it was dry. Then i kinda stroked it a
little bit and some pre cum came out. I
stroked it a little bit more and nothing
else came out. I didnt wipe the pre cum
off. Then i put it back in her and had sex
for a few more minutes. We both decided to
stop and then put a condom on. Before we
put the condom on i felt my penis and
there was no pre cum at all. After that
we had sex for about 15-20 minutes. After
i left to go back to my place she called
me and told me that she stuck q tips up
her vagina to get rid of the pre cum. Did
that work at all?
Im worried that the precum could get her
pregnant because she is at her most
fertile. She began her period on the 16th
of december and it ended on the 20th. We
had sex on the 29th and i looked it up on
the internet to see when she is suppose to
be the most fertile. We had sex last night
and today the egg is supposed to be
released. He cycle is a 28 day cycle. She
also said that her period is always
different and irregular. She said that for
two months straight that she didnt have
her period. She said its never consistent.
I dont know what to believe because she
doenst keep track of when she has period.
She doesnt keep track because its so
irregular. I looked on a calendar and her
next period is set to be the 13th of
january. Thats if her period stays like
this. I dont know what to believe.
Is she going to be pregnant? Whats the
likely hood of her being pregnant? What
are the percentages of me getting her
pregnant from this?
Please give me some insight of what you
think is going to happen. Trust me, im
going to wear a condom everytime for now
on. It was only this one time. 
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Roberta777
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Great Information For You
Posted: 12-30-07 20:56pm
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Please go to Sexual Health - Women's Forum
and check out the Sticky: The Information
Post from Kia.
It will pretty much give you what you need
to know.
And, yes, pregnancy can occur from
pre-ejaculation.
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Bridget
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Posted: 12-30-07 21:09pm
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there's still time to get the morning
after pill. hurry, go get it!
if you do not want a baby, do not have
unprotected sex! ever!
how do you know there was no pre-cum? your
penis was completely dry when you took it
out and checked? was your girlfriend not
at all moist (which would have left your
penis feeling slightly wet or sticky)? if
so, i feel bad for her. that had to be
uncomfortable.
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bigballer155
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Posted: 12-30-07 21:15pm
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there wasnt any on my penis that i felt.
She wasnt wet anymore for some reason. She
was really wet when we first were doing it
and then she started to dry.
do you think that shes going to get
pregnant? and where can i get some pills?
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lele25
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Posted: 12-30-07 21:48pm
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I hate to scare you but it is very easy to
get pregnant from pre-cum. I know that you
said you checked, but more than likely
some of it did get in her, and it only
take one of those guys to fertilize and
egg! First, y'all need to hurry and get
the Plan B (morning after pill) which is
supposedly good up to 72 hours. Alot of
drugstores carry them in the pharmacy now
so call around or call Planned Parenthood
first thing in am. Second, y'all have got
to use reliable protection AT ALL TIMES!!!
Good luck!
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bigballer155
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Posted: 12-31-07 00:08am
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lele25..........your basically scaring me
but i dont think shes pregnant. She has
very irregular periods. She had cum in her
before from her ex who rubbed himself and
his hand was wet and then fingered her. I
would think that if that happened that she
would be pregnant. She said that before
her last 2 periods that she didnt have one
for 2 1/2 months. I think that im all set
and plus most pre cum doenst have semem in
it. She might have already had her
ovulation. She said that she her period is
never the same. Sometimes it will last
about 3-5 days, a whole week, or even 1-2
days. She said that her period is
irregular that she doesnt even know when
her next one is suppose to be. The days in
between her last 2 cycles have been 28
days but she said that its been 2 1/2
months before than and then a month or so
before then. She said that she doesnt know
when her next one is going to happen. I
doubt that she will be pregnant. She did
say though that she did experience pain on
the abdomen/cervix area at noon on
thursday (Dec. 27th).
What does that mean? should i be really
worried? whats the chance that shes
pregnant? give me a ball park figure. Is
it like a 1/10000 chance of her getting
pregnant or something?
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bigballer155
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Posted: 12-31-07 00:12am
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she also said that she bleed after i left
her house. I didnt break her open. Her ex
Bf fingered hard before and broke her
open. Does this mean anything that she
bled after we had sex? could it mean that
shes started ovulation? what does it mean?
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-31-07 00:31am
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ohmygosh YES SHE CAN BE PREGNANT
she can
it doesnt matter if it hasnt happened
before it could happen now
so if you DONT WANT KIDS the GO get the
morning after pill NOW
stop wasteing time
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-31-07 00:32am
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| bigballer155
wrote: | | she also said that she bleed
after i left her house. I didnt break her
open. Her ex Bf fingered hard before and
broke her open. Does this mean anything
that she bled after we had sex? could it
mean that shes started ovulation? what
does it mean? |
um you could have scratched her?
or irritated her crevix causing it to
bleed
ovulation has nothing to do with this
please educate your self on sex ok?
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Posted: 12-31-07 00:34am
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and
you cant possibly know if you had
preejaculate or not
you dont KNOW when you precum
it just happens
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Posted: 12-31-07 00:38am
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and yes ALL pre ejac has semen in it
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Roberta777
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Listen
Posted: 12-31-07 01:49am
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to The Girlfriend!
PLEASE.
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Re: Listen
Posted: 12-31-07 01:52am
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| Roberta777
wrote: | to The Girlfriend!
PLEASE. |
please what? 
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Posted: 12-31-07 01:57am
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As a primary means of contraception,
withdrawal has several disadvantages.
First, there's the pre-ejaculate fluid
(pre-cum) on which withdrawal will have no
effect since it's released well before you
ejaculate. This fluid may contain sperm
and, thus, it does present a risk of
pregnancy
http://www.goaskali
ce.columbia.edu/1186.html
so the fluid may conatin sperm in it which
can lead to pregnancy
thosands of women get pregnant from precum
and the withdrawl method
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Roberta777
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Please Listen
Posted: 12-31-07 02:00am
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To the advise given above.
These women are here to give you good
advise. If I were in your shoes, I would
take their advise and realize they have
something here to tell you.
Trust me on this one, a good friend
thought pre-ejaculate would never make a
child. Always thought the pull out method
was a sure and safe way for birth control.
It is not.
Good luck on your situation. Best to you
both.
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bigballer155
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Posted: 12-31-07 09:25am
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I told her that i would get the pill and
she no and that if she got it that she
wouldnt take it. What am i to do?
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bigballer155
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What I Got
Posted: 12-31-07 09:46am
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"Dear Confused...,
Yes, a woman can, though the chances are
low. Sperm could be in pre-cum, but only
after a recent ejaculation, after which
some sperm may be left hanging around in
the urethra. "Recent" means masturbating
earlier and then having sex with a woman,
or during the same sexual episode of the
recent ejaculation. Urinating in between
ejaculations flushes the urethra of stray
sperm and makes the way clear for the
sperm-less pre-ejaculate fluid. If sperm
remains after a prior ejaculation, then
it's possible that they can enter the
vagina and make their way to meet an
egg."
http://www.goaskali
ce.columbia.edu/0922.html
Thats where i got this. I dont think shes
going to be pregnant. I didnt ejaculate at
all. So this means that theres a clear
path for sperm-less pre-ejaculate fluid. I
didnt ejaculate earlier. I pre-cam which
is was sperm-less pre-ejaculate fluid.
When i play with my self and test how far
i can go before i cum i notice this and
its always clear and not sticky. Im going
to take a wild guess and say that this had
no sperm or very minimal sperm. I also
looked up the chance of a women getting
pregnant from Pre-ejaculate who were in my
situation and the percentage was .16%. Im
really worrying over nothing. Thanks The
Girlfriend for your information but i
found all of this out before. I did my
research. I just didnt know that if the
first pre-ejaculation had no or minimal
sperm in it. If i was too ejaculate, and
not pee then i would be screwed. Because
once someone was to pre-ejaculate after
that there would be sperm left over and
that would get in her and plus the passage
way for the clear pre-ejaculate would be
not be clean cuz of ejaculating before and
not peeing. I think that im pretty sure
that im fine on this one.
Im going to always wear a condom, clean up
really good after sex even its protective
sex, and get her some birth control pills.
I cant get her any right now cuz im not
18. I'll be 18 in a few weeks. We aren't
going to have sex i will guarantee that
one. Im going to have sex for a long time.
I dont want anything like this to happen
again.
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Re: What I Got
Posted: 12-31-07 09:53am
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| bigballer155
wrote: |
Im going to always wear a condom, clean up
really good after sex even its protective
sex, and get her some birth control pills.
I cant get her any right now cuz im not
18. |
you can't get her any birth control pills
no matter how old you are. she has to go
to the gynecologist to get them herself.
seriously, get a clue before you start
engaging in risky behavior. i hope for
your sake that she's not pregnant.
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bigballer155
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Posted: 12-31-07 10:05am
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did you read what i got from the internet?
Theres very low chances that theres sperm
in my pre-ejaculate. I didnt ejaculate
before this. I ejaculated a day before we
had sex but i peed and then took a shower
afterwards. Before we had sex i didnt pre
ejaculate cuz i felt of my penis and it
wasnt wet. I then had sex with her until i
felt ejaculate was going to come out. I
could tell it was coming but not really
soon cuz ive tested myself like this
before. I pulled out and i felt the head
of my penis and it was dry and had no
precum on it. I then rubbed/stroked my
penis and pre ejaculate came out. I
rubbed/slightly wiped with my hand where
it was coming from and then put it back in
her slowly. We had sex about 5 minutes
after that. After the 5 minutes we both
decided to stop and grab a condom.
I don think shes pregnant.
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bigballer155
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the Article
Posted: 12-31-07 10:11am
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In the article i read from the internet it
said that the chances of her being
pregnant are low. IT SAID THAT SPERM COULD
ONLY BE IN PRE-AJACULATION BUT ONLY AFTER
RECENT AJACULATION. THERE WOULD BE SPERM
LEFT DANGLING FROM THE URETHRA. "recent"
MEAN MASTURBATING EARLIER THEN NOT PEEING
AND THEN HAVING SEX WITH A WOMEN OR DURING
THE SAME SEXUAL EPISODE OF RECENT
EJACULATION. URINATING IN BETWEEN TIME
WILL GET RID OF THE SPERM FROM DANGLING
THERE. I highly doubt that shes
pregnant.
Did you happen to read what i got or did
you not?
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