okay well like two weeks ago me and my boyfriend had sex like really rough sex and the next morning i woke up and when i went to go pee it hurt and i would bleed from my lady part. and i dont know what it is i still have it. i was wondering can i be pregnant? my bf doesnt think its possible because we used a condom with spermicide. but what can be wrong with me its been going on for 2 weeks already hoping it would go away. help...
Well, anytime you have sex, you can be pregnant. However, this sounds like it would be some type of UTI since you are experiencing burning when you pee. You need to go to a doctor though, just to make sure it is not some type of STD. If it is just a UTI, they can prescribe an antibiotic to clear this up.
This does not sound like pregnancy, this sound like an injury or an infection. If you had rough sex, your boyfriend's penis probably not only injured your vagina, vulva and urethra, but it most likely pushed bacteria up into the urethra, which is causing the infection that is giving you pain now.
You need to go to a gynecologist and get checked out.
Sounds like an infection. You can purchase OTC test kits that will determine if you have a UTI. I believe there is also one that test for bad levels of yeast & bacteria. Of course best thing is to call the doctor! Good luck!
You should check down there it is very possible that you could have gotten a little cut down there. I had that happen and it is very uncomfortable. Those cuts take a longer time to heal as well because they are in a warm wet area and they don't dry up as easily and heal as fast as a cut on your hand or leg.
gawjuzzgal, No, it is not normal but it is also not unusual.
I assume you are not a virgin any more and your hymen is not causing it? And that you are STD and infection free?
Things you can do:
* Use plenty of personal lube, preferably water based lube bought from the same place he buys his condoms
* Have plenty of kissing and fondling before you start. You may feel aroused but your body will take a few minutes to catch up.
* Start with him putting in one finger first, then a second one, then a third. Then he should start with his penis. Very slowly and a little bit at a time. If it hurts, he should not force it in.
* It might help for you to be on top and guide his penis in while you control the angle and depth of penetration.
If this does not help, you will have to see your doctor.
I have had several sexual partners, STD free. My BF and I just got to that level where we are having sex. He is very hard with and length. It hurts to have sex with him. Im wondering if my body is just to small for him or if there is actually something wrong. Any advice would be welcomed....