gawjuzzgal, No, it is not normal but it is also not unusual.
I assume you are not a virgin any more and your hymen is not causing it? And that you are STD and infection free?
Things you can do:
* Use plenty of personal lube, preferably water based lube bought from the same place he buys his condoms
* Have plenty of kissing and fondling before you start. You may feel aroused but your body will take a few minutes to catch up.
* Start with him putting in one finger first, then a second one, then a third. Then he should start with his penis. Very slowly and a little bit at a time. If it hurts, he should not force it in.
* It might help for you to be on top and guide his penis in while you control the angle and depth of penetration.
If this does not help, you will have to see your doctor.
Best of luck!