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Q: My Boyfriend Does Not Masturbate
asked by: cindy_23 on December 30th, 2007
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I am 23 y/o girl, i have a boyfriend that is 20 y/o. He goes to the gym every day.
We live together in my appartement. Sometimes i travel for two or three weeks as i work for an airline company.
He does not masturbate when he is alone. He does not enjoy doing this to himself. His penis became so sensitive and his balls became so hard and sometimes he feels pain when he does not ejaculate when i am away.

I decided to give him a hand in masturbation. I found that his penis is too sensitive to my hands. Once i touch his penis, it starts oozing some pre-cum drops, and it continues that dripping while i am masturbating him.
It seems that he saves a lot of load inside him for long times without letting it out. For this reason, i cannot move my hand away from his penis until making him cum. This is something very erotic to me and enjoy doing this.
When i come back home, I love to tease his penis and deny the orgasm for a while and enjoy watching him dripping too much before the final ejaculation.

I want to know if this has a bad effect on him or not ?
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Tylanas
replied on December 30th, 2007
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That pre-ejaculate is SUPPOSED to happen. He's not too sensitive, that's normal. It's to create lubrication.

It's probably not harmful; abstinence from masturbation for just three weeks isn't going to hurt him. I think he probably should masturbate at least once if he's in pain because he could potentially injure himself, but otherwise it's harmless.
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happyman
replied on December 31st, 2007
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My point is, before i work with that company and had to travel and leave him for a long time he was not like that. His pre-cum was not too much as it is now.

This pre-cum really turns me on and makes me need more of it. That is why i don't let him cum easily. I keep him too close to cum then i stop, so he drops more of his pre-cum.

I want to know if teasing him and denying his orgasm will hurt him or something even if it took an hour for example ?
This is very important for me to kknow as i love doing this to him.
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Whaturmuva
replied on December 31st, 2007
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What you are doing is orgasm control, you are infact building up the pleasure of the orgasm. If you do all this and do not get him off, then that is denying the orgasm. But no you wont hurt him as long as the stimulation continues and it ends in a climax.
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themarine
replied on December 31st, 2007
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Good
good for him...
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lele25
replied on January 5th, 2008
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It won't hurt him. That's great that he has so much control.
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awkwarddepressed
replied on January 8th, 2008
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Wow
thats awesome. wish my girl tended to my junk with that kind of tender loving care.
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EmilyS
replied on January 8th, 2008
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I do it to my boyfriend too and he loves it and so do I
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damonshouse
replied on January 17th, 2008
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I dont masturbate
I dont believe in guys masturbating. It is a shame to waste sperm like that, so I dont masturbate. I have gone several months with no release. You do feel very full but you get used to keeping your seed within you.
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redneck programmer
replied on January 17th, 2008
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i believe in it, i believe it's a very healthy thing to do....why wasting? It's not like we have a limited amount that will run out some day. Ah..th poor little sperms, landing on a tissue paper or whatever: 'ey man, where's the uterus? dude, I'm so lost...HEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLPPPPPP'
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damonshouse
replied on January 17th, 2008
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Men become better people and better lovers if they do not ejaculate through masturbation. I am also into fitness, and I have an amzing amount of energy now that I dont ejaculate.
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Tylanas
replied on January 17th, 2008
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damonshouse wrote:
Men become better people and better lovers if they do not ejaculate through masturbation. I am also into fitness, and I have an amzing amount of energy now that I dont ejaculate.

Yeah, except you just discussed how you do ejaculate, and how it shoots over your head and 14 feet if you stand up. I doubt that is even physically possible. Nice try, though.
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MikeH90
replied on January 18th, 2008
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Eiri wrote:
damonshouse wrote:
Men become better people and better lovers if they do not ejaculate through masturbation. I am also into fitness, and I have an amzing amount of energy now that I dont ejaculate.

Yeah, except you just discussed how you do ejaculate, and how it shoots over your head and 14 feet if you stand up. I doubt that is even physically possible. Nice try, though.


BUSTED! Nice catch Eiri.
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toobusy
replied on September 21st, 2009
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Hey, don't you guys pick on damonshouse. He's committed to a goal and will not stray off the path, unlike 95% of the guys in the world. To be honest, I have not masturbated in 4 years, and when my sperm comes out, the sperm only comes out in small quantities (maybe 2 or three drops), which does not count as masturbating or ejaculating. In fact, I actually hate masturbating because the cum is so sticky and smelly, and plus I always feel totally drained afterwards. A moment's pleasure, no matter how intense, is not worth even 10 minutes of cleaning up a filthy, gooey mess.
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W0LF
replied on September 21st, 2009
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Long periods without ejaculation is the easiest way to get prostate cancer short of a plutonium cockring. It's risky behavior getting riskier the longer you abstain and the greater hereditary risk of cancer you have in your family.

Semen lives 120-160 hours inside the human body. After just under a week of abstaining you have killed exactly as many sperm as you would have masturbating constantly for that period.

Masturbation gives a man better orgasmic control and sexual endurance. It's also been shown to increase penis size. If those sound like the traits of a bad lover to you then you're not a woman or a gay man.

Masturbation is cardiovascular exercise. It improves your body's ability to operate under physical strain. Masturbation will allow you to run faster for longer than sitting around trying to resist the natural urge to touch yourself.

What's more, masturbation is part of the designed operation of the male physiology. Your normal opperation depends on the assumption that you will will perform acts that you feel an instinctual need to. Abstaining is no less healthy than not eating vegetables or sleeping less than 9 hours a day. Your body is very good at telling you what it needs, stop being silly and listen to it.
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AGoodUsername42
replied on September 22nd, 2009
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There is not unhealthy aspect to abstaining. Your body will take care of itself. Everything you claim is a harmful effect is a lie that is populated by guilty men such as yourself.
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W0LF
replied on September 25th, 2009
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AGoodUsername42 wrote:
There is not unhealthy aspect to abstaining. Your body will take care of itself. Everything you claim is a harmful effect is a lie that is populated by guilty men such as yourself.


So it's your belief that the American Medical Assosiation are part of a sinister conspiracy to try to proliferate the lies that were taught to all children in health class since the mid 1970's and what cancer study after cancer study tells men is part of an elaborate scheme to empower the Masturbatory-Industrial complex? I guess I can wrap my head around that. I do just have one little question. WHAT COLOR IS THE SUN ON YOUR PLANET????

If you're phobic of medicine and science there is an abundance of conspiracy theory forums you will find much more your speed. However, claiming the findings of the most prestigious medical and scientific bodies on the planet are motivated by guilt about touching one's self buys you nothing but ridicule from me.
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