This is kinda difficult for me to talk
about, but I think Im losing interest in
sex. I am 25 and up until 3 weeks ago,
havent had sex in about 2 years. 3 weeks
ago, my girlfriend and I were having sex,
and I went limp for some unknown reason. I
couldnt really keep my mind on sex. I just
didnt feel as into it as I should have. Im
thinking that going so long without sex
has something to do with it, or its just
because Im not a very confident person. Im
constantly feeling like Im not good enough
because I have a below average size penis.
I have very low self esteem and Im
constantly depressed and stressed out.
Also, I rarely ever even feel the urge to
masturbate. Im trying to figure out if I
should take those pills to increase libido
or not. I have no idea what to do. My
girlfriend broke up with me last week
because I wasnt intimate with her, and
that I wasnt showing my love for her. I
would appreciate any help anyone could
give me. Thanks.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-30-07 11:25am
The depression is causing your lack of a
sex drive as is your low self esteem and
stressed out nature. You need to get all
of that fixed before your mind will be
ready for sex again. You're too distracted
to have sex as far as your brain and body
are concerned! No penis or libido pill is
going to help you: You need psychological
help first.
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JohnDoe68
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2007 Posts: 2
Thanks Posted: 12-30-07 17:03pm
Thanks for the info, but I cant really
afford to get psychological help. Am I
doomed to go without sex for the rest of
my life?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-30-07 21:43pm
If you don't want psychological help, then
yes. The cost of buying all of those phony
libido enhancers could instead be saved up
in order to Afford psychological help.
