Lately i've been feeling really down thinking about the family I lost when i split up with Neil. I mean we weren't exactly close but it was nice having a mother-in law, father-in-law and brother-in-law.
The only people I have in London are my mum and sister. The rest of my family live up North 250 miles away and a 5 hour drive. I grew up with out a Dad or any of my Dad's family and on my side of the family all I have is a grandma, grandad and uncle. No more relatives.
So now with the announcement that my ex-brother in law is going to be a Dad I'm feeling even more down in the dumps. I wish there was a way that I could build bridges with them and get back some sort of a relationship. i am sad that the kids will very rarely see their cousin as Neil only has them once a week as it is and his brother lives about an hours drive away.
I wish i knew what to say but i realy have noclue since i have never been in that sort of situation , im here for you if you ever need to talk, i know how it is to miss thngs u once had and go back in time to redo it or just make it all the same again, hopefuly in time you get to be happy again though ::hug::
yeah, we always wants whats best for our kids, and not grow up how we did it seems> Hopefully with time they can establish a good relationship with all of them, regaurdless of anything , theyre blood and family. I hope that everythin works itself out though i really do , you need to be happy but you know we are all here for you
if i could smack u right now i would. youve got a wonderful little family, they are all you need. you n Neil r over for the better and you should b happy. i only see two of my cousins and thats cuz they are so much younger than me i can babysit. cheer up becky! go out tonight since u dont have the rugrats and find a new man and be sure to ask if he has a really big close family! lol
maybe sleep will help and youll wake up a lil more on the happy side. Or just take anice long bath and read a good book, something to ease your mind a little bit, when the kids are in bed and im here alone i always think about things alot, to much time to think specialy on negative things.
oh hun im so sorry
i dont have anyone close to me either
i know how you feel
becks your such a wonderful strong person. your amazeing. and you have some beautiful kids that love and need you.
i knwo its hard expecially nw with the news of her being pregnant
but is there a possiblity you can still be there for her in her life too?