Yeah, I know what you mean. We don't go out as much as we'd like b/c my mom always tells me stuff when I ask her to watch her. We go out to watch a movie MAYBE once every couple of months and dinner has been the same lately. We've just been taking her with us to eat, which is becoming a nightmare!
Starting January 1st, we set up a plan to pay my mom. She wants 10 bucks a day to watch her when we work (100 a month b/c Jesse works 7/7) and 2 dollars and hour when we want to do something alone. All dr.'s appt are free. Now I won't feel bad for asking her to babysit b/c I'll be paying her.