i will try to relax as possible as i can
and i dont know what is comfortable for me
or not untile i try it to know and thanks
too much for ur replay
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misssemsem
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 68 Location: ,
to the Girlfriend Posted: 01-05-08 12:25pm
what is the std i dont know what is mean
do u mean sexual disease? . and i dont
wanna make birth control i wanna have baby
in god willing that will make me happy i
see my friends who have babies happy so i
hope to have babies too and thanks for ur
replay
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Neek
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Joined: 13 Jan 2008 Posts: 20 Location: ,
Posted: 01-13-08 23:56pm
I wasnt nervous the first time... i really
wanted to do it
i was with the guy for 8 months, which i
thought was long enough, but i wasnt ready
all that time... then i jst felt the more
comfortable i was with him, then i was
ready to do it
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Re: to the Girlfriend Posted: 01-13-08 23:59pm
misssemsem
wrote:
what is the std i dont know
what is mean do u mean sexual disease? .
and i dont wanna make birth control i
wanna have baby in god willing that will
make me happy i see my friends who have
babies happy so i hope to have babies too
and thanks for ur
replay
std= sexually transmitted disease
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misssemsem
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 68 Location: ,
to the Girl Friend Posted: 01-14-08 18:41pm
thanks so much girlfriend
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Posts: 78 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALiFORNiA
hi Posted: 01-16-08 01:05am
hey misssemsem?.....
you're that nerv0us to do all of this...
well I wish you the best for you and your
husband in the long-run!.....
well about the SEX thing.
dont be nervous!...RELAX.
if he LOVES you..
then he wouldn't care if It's your first
time...
HECK! he'll probably be teaching you some
things!
I"m still a virgin to0..my boyfriend
isn't!.
but we still love eachother......
we're both open to eachother.
we talk about sex toO!.
I told him that I"m to0 nervous to have
sex..
so he said that he'll wait until I'm
ready.
[[so It's all go0d to me!]].....
I'm probably the wierdest girl..
but we barely make-out.
ok...I lied!..we haven't made out yet!.
and we've been together for 6 months!..
but like I said..
*the guy loves me*
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Kryssja
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2006 Posts: 56
Posted: 01-16-08 15:27pm
i think you will be fine....just
relax....dont think of it as a chore or a
duty or as something to dread....
think about your husband, and the love the
two of you share....the thing is that you
are only ready when you feel ready.
When the time comes, just relax....try not
to build up the night....dont make a big
deal of it in terms of setting the mood
and so on....this will only heighten the
anxiety and put pressure on both of you.
Because you are a virgin, he is going to
want to make your first time special, and
thats great
But believe me....when you are
comfortable, and the time comes, and it
happens, if you relax and take your
time.....it will be great
good luck
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misssemsem
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Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 68 Location: ,
to creazyinluvwitchu Posted: 01-16-08 16:38pm
hi iam really thanks for u replay and ur
support to me .wow i think u have the same
case as me u virgin and he is
not . i told him about my nervous really
and he said to me to take my time and he
isnot hurry to do this . i will try to
relax thanks for ur advice and good luck
to u too
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misssemsem
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 68 Location: ,
to kryssja Posted: 01-16-08 16:49pm
thanks kryssja its really nice replay from
u i will try to relax but i dont know how
that is my problem cause iam from the
nervouse kind and irritable too
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mickyintexas
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2008 Posts: 1
Sex for first time at marriage - don't be worried Posted: 01-19-08 12:55pm
Being nervous the first time is completely
normal. I think it's important to remember
that this is not about sex and having some
movie-esque experience. It should be about
love-making...confirming your love for one
another that you now have on an emotional
level with an expression on a physical
level. If you keep communicating with one
another and have a mutual respect for one
another, you should be able to talk about
concerns and worries. You should be able
to talk with him about your concerns with
lack of experience and his previous
encounters. He should be accepting and
respectful of your concerns. If he is, and
you can talk, you will feel relaxed and it
shouldn't be a problem. Find a girlfriend
that you can talk with about questions
that you may have about the "engineering"
part of it..questions that you want to
ask, etc.
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misssemsem
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 68 Location: ,
to mickyintexas Posted: 01-19-08 17:03pm
iam really thanks to u for ur replay and i
did and i talked to him about my fair and
he already know about my lack of experince
and he try to make me dont fear but that
some thing i cant prevent it really .
about friend to me to ask may be she dont
have enough knoweldege for me too , can i
ask about engineering part cause i dont
know about it :$
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crazyinluvwitchu
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Posts: 78 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALiFORNiA
to missemsem.... Posted: 01-20-08 19:07pm
thanx for the luck!...
well if the guy loves you.then yeah he
would wait until you're ready!.....
that's what my boyfriends always telling
me!..
he also says that he aint in any
rush!...
actually, nothing's gonna happern
for a while.we're actually going through a
long istance right now......
it's weird cause it's the first one we've
both had!......
and we're both serious about
eachother!...
I'm really comforable talking to him
about everything though!..AT
first....everytime he talks about it, I
always try hard to change the
subject..then he'll just laugh..
then tell me that it's normal to feel this
way......
and he totally understands!....
anywais..my point is!...I dont
think you're boyfriend would care if
you're nervous N stuff!...I mean...HE
LOVES YOU THAT'S WHY!
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nightangel73
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Re: to mickyintexas Posted: 01-20-08 20:12pm
misssemsem
wrote:
iam really thanks to u for
ur replay and i did and i talked to him
about my fair and he already know about my
lack of experince and he try to make me
dont fear but that some thing i cant
prevent it really . about friend to me to
ask may be she dont have enough knoweldege
for me too , can i ask about engineering
part cause i dont know about it
:$
You will not be nervous when you have sex.
I thought I was going to be nervous at the
wedding but then once there I wasn't
nervous at all. The anticipation is only
what is making you nervous.
and thanks for ur
replay
u virgin and he is
not . i told him about my nervous really
and he said to me to take my time and he
isnot hurry to do this . i will try to
relax thanks for ur advice and good luck
to u too 
